The Domestic Life of Thomas Jefferson Compiled From Family Letters and ReminiscencesRandolph, Sarah N. (Sarah Nicholas)
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The Domestic Life of Thomas Jefferson Compiled From Family Letters and Reminiscences
Randolph, Sarah N. (Sarah Nicholas)
Jefferson, Thomas, 1743-1826; Presidents -- United States -- Biography
My aunt, Mrs. Eppes, was singularly beautiful. She was
high-principled, just, and generous. Her temper, naturally
mild, became, I think, saddened by ill health in the latter
part of her life. In that respect she differed from my mother,
whose disposition seemed to have the sunshine of heaven in it.
Nothing ever wearied my mother's patience, or exhausted, what
was inexhaustible, her sweetness, her kindness, indulgence, and
self-devotion. She was intellectually somewhat superior to her
sister, who was sensible of the difference, though she was of
too noble a nature for her feelings ever to assume an ignoble
character. There was between the sisters the strongest and
warmest attachment, the most perfect confidence and affection.
My aunt utterly undervalued and disregarded her own beauty,
remarkable as it was. She was never fond of dress or ornament,
and was always careless of admiration. She was even vexed by
allusions to her beauty, saying that people only praised her for
that because they could not praise her for better things. If
my mother inadvertently exclaimed, half sportively, "Maria, if
I only had your beauty," my aunt would resent it as far as she
could resent any thing said or done by her sister.
It may be said that the extraordinary value she attached to
talent was mainly founded in her idea that by the possession of
it she would become a more suitable companion for her father.
Both daughters considered his affection as the great good of
their lives, and both loved him with all the devotion of their
most loving hearts. My aunt sometimes mourned over the fear that
her father _must_ prefer her sister's society, and _could_ not
take the same pleasure in hers. This very humility in one so
lovely was a charm the more in her character. She was greatly
loved and esteemed by all her friends. She was on a footing of
the most intimate friendship with my father's sister, Mrs. T.
Eston Randolph, herself a most exemplary and admirable woman,
whose daughter, long years after, married Francis, Mrs. Eppes's
son.
I know not, my dear Mr. Randall, whether this letter will add
any thing to the knowledge you already possess of this one of
my grandfather's family. Should it not, you must take the will
for the deed, and as I am somewhat wearied by the rapidity with
which I have written, in order to avoid delay, I will bid you
adieu, with my very best wishes for your entire success in your
arduous undertaking.
Very truly yours
ELLEN W. COOLIDGE.
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