The Domestic Life of Thomas Jefferson Compiled From Family Letters and ReminiscencesRandolph, Sarah N. (Sarah Nicholas)
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The Domestic Life of Thomas Jefferson Compiled From Family Letters and Reminiscences
Randolph, Sarah N. (Sarah Nicholas)
Jefferson, Thomas, 1743-1826; Presidents -- United States -- Biography
How heart-rending the death of this "ever dear daughter" was to
Jefferson, may be judged from the following touching and beautiful
letter, written by him two months after the sad event, in reply to
one of condolence from his old and constant friend, Governor Page:
_To Governor Page._
Your letter, my dear friend, of the 25th ultimo, is a new proof
of the goodness of your heart, and the part you take in my
loss marks an affectionate concern for the greatness of it. It
is great indeed. Others may lose of their abundance, but I,
of my want, have lost even the half of all I had. My evening
prospects now hang on the slender thread of a single life.
Perhaps I may be destined to see even this last cord of parental
affection broken! The hope with which I had looked forward to
the moment when, resigning public cares to younger hands, I was
to retire to that domestic comfort from which the last great
step is to be taken, is fearfully blighted.
When you and I look back on the country over which we have
passed, what a field of slaughter does it exhibit! Where are
all the friends who entered it with us, under all the inspiring
energies of health and hope? As if pursued by the havoc of war,
they are strewed by the way, some earlier, some later, and
scarce a few stragglers remain to count the numbers fallen, and
to mark yet, by their own fall, the last footsteps of their
party. Is it a desirable thing to bear up through the heat
of action, to witness the death of all our companions, and
merely be the last victim? I doubt it. We have, however, the
traveller's consolation. Every step shortens the distance we
have to go; the end of our journey is in sight--the bed wherein
we are to rest, and to rise in the midst of the friends we have
lost! "We sorrow not, then, as others who have no hope;" but
look forward to the day which joins us to the great majority.
But whatever is to be our destiny, wisdom, as well as duty,
dictates that we should acquiesce in the will of Him whose it
is to give and take away, and be contented in the enjoyment of
those who are still permitted to be with us. Of those connected
by blood, the number does not depend on us. But friends we have
if we have merited them. Those of our earliest years stand
nearest in our affections. But in this, too, you and I have been
unlucky. Of our college friends (and they are the dearest) how
few have stood with us in the great political questions which
have agitated our country: and these were of a nature to justify
agitation. I did not believe the Lilliputian fetters of that day
strong enough to have bound so many.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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