The Domestic Life of Thomas Jefferson Compiled From Family Letters and ReminiscencesRandolph, Sarah N. (Sarah Nicholas)
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The Domestic Life of Thomas Jefferson Compiled From Family Letters and Reminiscences
Randolph, Sarah N. (Sarah Nicholas)
Jefferson, Thomas, 1743-1826; Presidents -- United States -- Biography
Of the many friends by whom he was surrounded in his college days
Dabney Carr was his favorite; his friendship for him was strengthened
by the ties of family connection, on his becoming his brother-in-law
as the husband of his sister Martha. As boys, they had loved each
other; and when studying together it was their habit to go with their
books to the well-wooded sides of Monticello, and there pursue their
studies beneath the shade of a favorite oak. So much attached did
the two friends become to this tree, that it became the subject of a
mutual promise, that the one who survived should see that the body of
the other was buried at its foot. When young Carr's untimely death
occurred Jefferson was away from home, and on his return he found
that he had been buried at Shadwell. Being mindful of his promise,
he had the body disinterred, and removing it, placed it beneath that
tree whose branches now bend over such illustrious dead--for this was
the origin of the grave-yard at Monticello.
It is not only as Jefferson's friend that Dabney Carr lives in
history. The brilliancy of the reputation which he won in his
short career, has placed his name among the men who stood first for
talent and patriotism in the early days of the Revolution. Jefferson
himself, in describing his first appearance in the Virginia House of
Burgesses, pays a warm and handsome tribute to his friend. He says:
I well remember the pleasure expressed in the countenance and
conversation of the members generally on this débût of Mr. Carr,
and the hopes they conceived as well from the talents as the
patriotism it manifested.... His character was of a high order.
A spotless integrity, sound judgment, handsome imagination,
enriched by education and reading, quick and clear in his
conceptions, of correct and ready elocution, impressing every
hearer with the sincerity of the heart from which it flowed.
His firmness was inflexible in whatever he thought was right;
but when no moral principle stood in the way, never had man
more of the milk of human kindness, of indulgence, of softness,
of pleasantry of conversation and conduct. The number of his
friends and the warmth of their affection, were proofs of his
worth, and of their estimate of it.
We have again from Jefferson's pen a charming picture of the domestic
character of Carr, in a letter to his friend John Page, written in
1770:
He (Carr) speaks, thinks, and dreams of nothing but his young
son. This friend of ours, Page, in a very small house, with a
table, half a dozen chairs, and one or two servants, is the
happiest man in the universe. Every incident in life he so takes
as to render it a source of pleasure. With as much benevolence
as the heart of man will hold, but with an utter neglect of
the costly apparatus of life, he exhibits to the world a new
phenomenon in life--the Samian sage in the tub of the cynic.
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