The Education of American GirlsBrackett, Anna C. (Anna Callender)
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The Education of American Girls
Brackett, Anna C. (Anna Callender)
Women -- Education -- United States
The child instinctively begins to inquire into physiological questions
concerning marriage, birth, etc. There is but one way in which such
questions should be met--with perfect truth in perfect reverence. To
little children, utterly incapable of understanding the truth, the
pretty fables of the stork or the angel may be harmless, but all earnest
inquiries should be met with the simple truth as far as it can be
understood, and the promise of full explanation whenever the mind is
mature to receive it. The mother should anticipate this natural need of
the mind for knowledge, and should prepare her daughter for initiation
into the higher mysteries of human life by an acquaintance with life in
its simpler forms, where it is not complicated by human passions. The
functions of reproduction in vegetable life are the natural method of
instruction, and lead the way to a recognition of the sacredness and
beauty of the whole subject. The child's delight in the flowers of the
field is easily deepened into intellectual instruction by pointing out
the functions of the various organs and their beautiful adaption to use.
In the care with which variety is sought the important lesson against
intermarriage may be recognized, which fable and theology has surrounded
with such fearful imaginings.
Next, the care of domestic animals will naturally interest the child,
and from her kittens and her hens she will learn much, without
excitement or effort, that will form a basis for the higher truths of
human physiology.
The mother should thus always anticipate in her own mind the needs of
the daughter, and prepare her for the changes in her physical condition
which will come with maturity, in the simplest, the tenderest, and the
most reverent manner. Everything approaching to levity or coarseness of
speech should be utterly avoided, so that, while the young girl will
speak frankly and without shame to her mother or her physician, she will
shun light speaking to chance companions as she would blasphemy.[29] And
here the great lesson of a high standard of health should be
re-enforced. There is no function of woman's nature which in its right
exercise does not tend to strengthen, refresh, and revivify her physical
and mental powers. If healthy, no one need interfere with any rational
enjoyment, any reasonable amount of intellectual labor, or necessary
work. All functions will be best regulated by a full, harmonious, normal
development of all. And in physiology as in religion, the grand paradox
holds true, "that he who loveth his life shall lose it, and he that
hateth it for my sake shall find it."
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