The Education of American GirlsBrackett, Anna C. (Anna Callender)
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The Education of American Girls
Brackett, Anna C. (Anna Callender)
Women -- Education -- United States
There is no surer way to destroy the health than to care for nothing
beside it; and the most important condition for the young girl
approaching maturity is to have her thoughts turned from herself to wide
and large interests, and to have her mind and body healthily and
regularly occupied. When any organ is feeble or diseased, the thing most
to be avoided is fastening the mind upon its functions, so that nervous
irritability or congestion is produced. And yet, as I have constantly
intimated, the actual mother has to deal not alone with ideal womanhood,
in full possession of a birthright of health, but very likely with a
feeble and diseased being, who develops new forms of evil in every
crisis of life. There she must be the watchful guardian, and recognize
the limitations of her individual child, and with wise provision
apportion the tasks and the pleasures to her peculiar needs.
While all sickness is the result of broken law, it is rarely mainly the
sufferer's own fault; and the mother will tenderly and lovingly shield
her sickly child, and show her the rich compensations which are possible
to her in mental and spiritual life, though she should never fall into
the morbid error of believing physical weakness to be the most favorable
condition of spiritual welfare.
But if she is conscientious and true, really seeking her child's best
good, instead of the indulgence of the hour, she will be more likely to
err on the side of too much care than too little.
Even in such cases, she should seek more a positive than a negative
care; striving rather to brace and fortify her daughter against the ills
of life, than to shield her from them. "Remember," said wise Dr.
Jackson, "the danger is in staying in the house."
For this reason, books especially written for the instruction of girls
are often very pernicious. They emphasize certain topics in their
relation to woman, and so excite disgust and produce abnormal
excitement, where the simple teachings of science, reverently enforced,
would produce only a sacred respect for law. The great responsibility of
the transmission of hereditary qualities, may be early taught without
any mental excitement. A little girl of twelve years old said to her
teacher one day: "When you told me to brush my teeth, I thought, why
should I--of what consequence will it be, fifty years hence, whether I
do so or not; and then I thought that if I ever had a child, if I had
bad teeth, she would be more likely to--wouldn't she?" "Yes," replied
the teacher with deep seriousness; "and that is a most sacred reason for
guarding your own health and strength."
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