The Eighth Year: A Vital Problem of Married LifeGibbs, Philip
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The Eighth Year: A Vital Problem of Married Life
Gibbs, Philip
Domestic fiction; Married people -- Fiction
It is largely a game of bluff, as it is played in thousands of small
households. It is a game, also, of consequences, as I shall have to
show. It consists in keeping up appearances, in going one better than
one’s neighbor whenever possible, and in making a claim to a higher rung
of the social ladder than is justified by the husband’s income and rank
in life. It is the creed of snobbishness. For this creed everything
is sacrificed--contentment of mind, the pleasure of life, the little
children of life.
In many flats of Intellectual Mansions, and even in the small houses
of the “well-to-do” suburbs, children do not enter into the scheme of
things. The “babies have been left out of the business.” For people
who are keeping up appearances to the last penny of their income cannot
afford to be burdened by babies. Besides, they interfere seriously
with social ladder-climbing, drag down a married couple of the younger
generation to the domestic squalor of their parents’ early life. The
husband cannot bear the thought that his wife should have to make
beds in the morning and mend stockings in the evening, and wheel out a
perambulator in the park. It is so very “low down.” The husband wants
to save his wife from all this domestic drudgery. He wants her to look
pretty in the frocks he buys her. He wants her to wear more expensive
frocks than any other woman in his circle of friends. He likes to hear
his friends say, “How charming your wife looks to-night, old man!” and
to hear elderly ladies say to his wife, “What a beautiful gown you are
wearing, my dear!”
He is working hard now in order to furnish his wife’s wardrobe--not only
for her pleasure, but for his pride. After the first romance of love,
ambition comes to gild reality. He is ambitious to build up a beautiful
little home. The furniture with which they started married life on the
hire system has been bought and paid for, and is now replaced here and
there by “genuine antiques.” He puts some good prints on his walls and
buys some water-color sketches, and becomes in a small way a patron of
the arts. It is pleasant during one of his wife’s evening At Homes to
take a guest on one side and say “What do you think of that? Pretty
good, eh? It’s an original, by Verdant Green, you know.”
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