Even our sympathy with the grief or joy of another, before we are
informed of the cause of either, is always extremely imperfect.
General lamentations, which express nothing but the anguish of the
sufferer, create rather a curiosity to inquire into his situation,
along with some {12} disposition to sympathize with him, than any
actual sympathy that is very sensible. The first question which we ask
is, What has befallen you? Till this be answered, though we are uneasy
both from the vague idea of his misfortune, and still more from
torturing ourselves with conjectures about what it may be, yet our
fellow-feeling is not very considerable.
Sympathy, therefore, does not arise so much from the view of the
passion, as from that of the situation which excites it. We sometimes
feel for another, a passion of which he himself seems to be altogether
incapable; because, when we put ourselves in his case, that passion
arises in our breast from the imagination, though it does not in his
from the reality. We blush for the impudence and rudeness of another,
though he himself appears to have no sense of the impropriety of his
own behaviour; because we cannot help feeling with what confusion we
ourselves should be covered, had we behaved in so absurd a manner.
Of all the calamities to which the condition of mortality exposes
mankind, the loss of reason appears, to those who have the least spark
of humanity, by far the most dreadful, and they behold that last stage
of human wretchedness, with deeper commiseration than any other. But
the poor wretch, who is in it, laughs and sings perhaps, and is
altogether insensible of his own misery. The anguish which humanity
feels, therefore, at the sight of such an object cannot be the
reflection of any sentiment of the sufferer. The compassion of the
spectator must arise altogether from the consideration of what he
himself would feel if he was reduced to the same unhappy situation,
and, what perhaps is impossible, was at the same time able to regard
it with his present reason and judgment.
What are the pangs of a mother, when she hears the moanings of her
infant that during the agony of disease cannot express what it feels?
In her idea of what it suffers, she joins, to its real helplessness,
her own consciousness of that helplessness, and her own terrors for
the unknown consequences of its disorder; and out of all these, forms,
for her own sorrow, the most complete image of misery and distress.
The infant, however, feels only the uneasiness of the present instant,
which can never be great. With regard to the future, it is perfectly
secure, and in its thoughtlessness and want of foresight, possesses an
antidote against fear and anxiety, the great tormentors of the human
breast, from which, reason and philosophy will, in vain, attempt to
defend it when it grows up to a man.
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