of suiting, with exact justness, their sentiments and behaviour to the
smallest difference of situation, and of acting upon all occasions
with the most delicate and accurate propriety. The coarse clay of
which the bulk of mankind are formed, cannot be wrought up to such
perfection. There is scarce any man, however, who by discipline,
education, and example, may not be so impressed with a regard to
general rules, as to act upon almost every occasion with tolerable
decency, and through the whole of his life to avoid any considerable
degree of blame.
Without this sacred regard to general rules, there is no man whose
conduct can be much depended upon. It is this which constitutes the
most essential difference between a man of principle and honour and a
worthless fellow. The one adheres, on all occasions, steadily and
resolutely to his maxims, and preserves through the whole of his life
one even tenor of conduct. The other, acts variously and accidentally,
as humour, inclination, or interest chance to be uppermost. Nay, such
are the inequalities of humour to which all men are subject, that
without this principle, the man who, in all his cool hours, had the
most delicate sensibility to the propriety of conduct, might often be
led to act absurdly upon the most frivolous occasions, and when it was
scarce possible to assign any serious motive for his behaving in this
manner. Your friend makes you a visit when you happen to be in a
humour which makes it disagreeable to receive him: in your present
mood his civility is very apt to appear an impertinent intrusion; and
if you were to give way to the views of things which at this time
occur, though civil in your temper, you would behave to him with
coldness and contempt. What renders you incapable of such a rudeness,
is nothing but a regard to the general rules of civility and
hospitality, which prohibit it. That habitual reverence which your
former experience has taught you for these, enables you to act, upon
all such occasions, with nearly equal propriety, and hinders those
inequalities of temper, to which all men are subject, from influencing
your conduct in any very sensible degree. But if without regard to
these general rules, even the duties of politeness, which are so
easily observed, and which one can scarce have any serious motive to
violate, would yet be so frequently violated, what would become of the
duties of justice, of truth, of chastity, of fidelity, which it is
often so difficult to observe, and which there may be so {144} many
strong motives to violate? But upon the tolerable observance of these
duties depends the very existence of human society, which would
crumble into nothing if mankind were not generally impressed with a
reverence for those important rules of conduct.
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