THE regard of those general rules of conduct, is what is properly
called a sense of duty, a principle of the greatest consequence in
human life, and the only principle by which the bulk of mankind are
capable of directing their actions. Many men behave very decently, and
through the whole of their lives avoid any considerable degree of
blame, who yet, perhaps, never felt the sentiment upon the propriety
of which we found our approbation of their conduct, but acted merely
from a regard to what they saw were the established rules of
behaviour. The man who has received great benefits from another
person, may, by the natural coldness of his temper, feel but a very
small degree of the sentiment of gratitude. If he has been virtuously
educated, however, he will often have been made to observe how odious
those actions appear which denote a want of this sentiment, and how
amiable the contrary. Though his heart therefore is not warmed with
any grateful affection, he will strive to act as if it was, and will
endeavour to pay all those regards and attentions to his patron which
the liveliest gratitude could suggest. He will visit him regularly; he
will behave to him respectfully; he will never talk of him but with
expressions of the highest esteem, and of the many obligations which
he owes to him. And what is more, he will carefully embrace every
opportunity of making a proper return for past services. He may do all
this too without any hypocrisy or blamable dissimulation, without any
selfish intention of obtaining new favours, and without any design of
imposing either upon his benefactor or the public. The motive of his
actions may be no other than a reverence for the established rule of
duty, a serious and earnest desire of acting, in every respect,
according to the law of gratitude. A wife, in the same manner, may
sometimes not feel that tender regard for her husband which is
suitable to the relation that subsists between them. If she has been
virtuously educated, however, she will endeavour to act as if she felt
it, to be careful, officious, faithful, and sincere, and to be
deficient in none of those attentions which the sentiment of conjugal
affection could have prompted her to perform. Such a friend, and such
a wife, are neither of them, undoubtedly, the very best of their {143}
kinds; and though both of them may have the most serious and earnest
desire to fulfil every part of their duty, yet they will fail in many
nice and delicate regards, they will miss many opportunities of
obliging, which they could never have overlooked if they had possessed
the sentiment that is proper to their situation. Though not the very
first of their kinds, however, they are perhaps the second; and if the
regard to the general rules of conduct has been very strongly
impressed upon them, neither of them will fail in any very essential
part of their duty. None but those of the happiest mould are capable
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