The prudent man is always sincere, and feels horror at the very
thought of exposing himself to the disgrace which attends upon the
detection of falsehood. But though always sincere, he is not always
frank and open; and though he never tells any thing but the truth, he
does not always think himself bound, when not properly called upon, to
tell the whole truth. As he is cautious in his actions, so he is
reserved in his speech; and never rashly or unnecessarily obtrudes his
opinion concerning either things or persons.
The prudent man, though not always distinguished by the most exquisite
sensibility, is always very capable of friendship. But his friendship
is not that ardent and passionate, but too often transitory affection,
which appears so delicious to the generosity of youth and
inexperience. It is a sedate, but steady and faithful attachment to a
few well-tried and well-chosen companions; in the choice of whom he is
not guided by the giddy admiration of shining accomplishments, but by
the sober esteem of modesty, discretion, and good conduct. But though
capable of friendship, he is not always much disposed to general
sociality. He rarely frequents, and more rarely figures in those
convivial societies which are distinguished for the jollity and gaiety
of their conversation. Their way of life might too often interfere
with the regularity of his temperance, might interrupt the steadiness
of his industry, or break in upon the strictness of his frugality.
But though his conversation may not always be very sprightly or
diverting, it is always perfectly inoffensive. He hates the thought of
being guilty of any petulance or rudeness. He never assumes
impertinently over any body, and, upon all common occasions, is
willing to place himself rather below than above his equals. Both in
his conduct and conversation, he is an exact observer of decency, and
respects with an almost religious scrupulosity, all the established
decorums and ceremonials of society. And, in this respect, he sets a
much better example than has frequently been done by men of much more
splendid talents and virtues, who, in all ages, from that of Socrates
and Aristippus, down to that of Dr. Swift and Voltaire, and from that
of Philip and Alexander the Great, down to that of the great Czar
Peter of Muscovy, have too often distinguished themselves by the most
improper and even insolent contempt of all the ordinary decorums of
life and conversation, and who have thereby set the most pernicious
example to those who wish to resemble them, and who too often content
themselves with imitating their follies, without even attempting to
attain their perfections.
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