pleasing to them, and, upon that account, less frequent. They may
continue to live with one another in the mutual exchange of all
essential good offices, and with every other external appearance of
decent regard. But that cordial satisfaction, that delicious sympathy,
that confidential openness and ease, which naturally take place in the
conversation of those who have lived long and familiarly with one
another, it seldom happens that they can completely enjoy.
It is only, however, with the dutiful and the virtuous, that the
general rule has even this slender authority. With the dissipated, the
profligate, and the vain, it is entirely disregarded. They are so far
from respecting it, that they seldom talk of it but with the most
indecent derision; and an early and long separation of this kind never
fails to estrange them most completely from one another. With such
persons, respect for the general rule can at best produce only a cold
and affected civility (a very slender semblance of real regard); and
even this, the slightest offence, the smallest opposition of interest,
commonly puts an end to altogether.
The education of boys at distant great schools, of young men at
distant colleges, of young ladies in distant nunneries and
boarding-schools, seems, in the higher ranks of life, to have hurt
most essentially the domestic morals, and consequently the domestic
happiness, both of France and England. Do you wish to educate your
children to be dutiful to their parents, to be kind and affectionate
to their brothers and sisters? put them under the necessity of being
dutiful children, of being kind and affectionate brothers and sisters:
educate them in your own house. From their parent's house, they may,
with propriety and advantage, go out every day to attend public
schools: but let their dwelling be always at home. Respect for you
must always impose a very useful restraint upon their conduct; and
respect for them may frequently impose no useless restraint upon your
own. Surely no acquirement, which can possibly be derived from what is
called a public education, can make any sort of compensation for what
{197} is almost certainly and necessarily lost by it. Domestic
education is the institution of nature; public education, the
contrivance of man. It is surely unnecessary to say, which is likely
to be the wisest.
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