1. IT is indecent to express any strong degree of those passions which
arise from a certain situation or disposition of the body; because the
company, not being in the same disposition, cannot be expected to
sympathize with them. Violent hunger, for example, though upon many
occasions not only natural, but unavoidable, is always indecent, and
to eat voraciously is universally regarded as a piece of ill manners.
There is, however, some degree of sympathy, even with hunger. It is
agreeable to see our companions eat with a good appetite, and all
expressions of loathing are offensive. The disposition of body which
is habitual to a man in health, makes his stomach easily keep time, if
I may be allowed so coarse an expression, with the one, and not with
the other. {27} We can sympathize with the distress which excessive
hunger occasions when we read the description of it in the journal of
a siege, or of a sea voyage. We imagine ourselves in the situation of
the sufferers, and thence readily conceive the grief, the fear, and
consternation, which must necessarily distract them. We feel,
ourselves, some degree of those passions, and therefore sympathize
with them: but as we do not grow hungry by reading the description, we
cannot properly, even in this case, be said to sympathize with their
hunger.
It is the same case with the passion by which Nature unites the two
sexes. Though naturally the most furious of all the passions, all
strong expressions of it are upon every occasion indecent, even
between persons in whom its most complete indulgence is acknowledged
by all laws, both human and divine, to be perfectly innocent. There
seems, however, to be some degree of sympathy even with this passion.
To talk to a woman as we should to a man is improper: it is expected
that their company should inspire us with more gaiety, more
pleasantry, and more attention; and an entire insensibility to the
fair sex, renders a man contemptible in some measure even to the men.
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