The Eugenic Marriage, Volume 2 (of 4): A Personal Guide to the New Science of Better Living and Better BabiesHague, W. Grant (William Grant)
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The Eugenic Marriage, Volume 2 (of 4): A Personal Guide to the New Science of Better Living and Better Babies
Hague, W. Grant (William Grant)
Eugenics; Hygiene; Marriage
It is just as essential that a child should cry as that it should sleep.
Every healthy child should cry for twenty or thirty minutes every
twenty-four hours. Nature calls for this as an exercise in order to
develop the lungs; therefore, if there is no just cause for the crying
you must regard it as a necessary evil, even if you look upon it as a
domestic affliction.
THE HABIT OF WALKING THE FLOOR WITH BABY EVERY TIME IT CRIES.--This is
another habit that is indulged in to the sorrow and ridicule of the
race. If you are a victim of this habit, you have yourself to blame. It
is a matter of education, or habit, pure and simple, and, like all bad
habits, it is difficult to break away from. In the preceding paragraph,
you have been told that when baby wants something, or is uncomfortable,
it employs the language nature gave it,--it cries. No child ever cried
to be walked up and down the floor in the dead of the night. Begin at
the beginning, when it first cries, find out why it is crying. Offer it
a little water if it is not feeding time. Examine its diaper and if
soiled change it. It may be overdressed and consequently hot,
perspiring, and uncomfortable; change its position. Find out if any pin
is open and hurting it; loosen the binder so it can breathe easily. If
it is a colicky child follow the instructions given in the treatment of
colic. Be patient the first few nights, and be thorough, because you may
discover why it cries and each discovery will help you next time. If you
discover something wrong, some reasonable excuse for the crying, does it
not prove the folly of walking the floor? If it wants a drink of water,
or if its diaper is wet, how is walking the floor going to cure it, or
how can you expect the baby to stop crying when you so unjustly construe
its reasonable and its only way of asking a favor? If walking the floor
stops its crying, it stops it by exhausting the child, not by relieving
it of its little ailment.
JOUNCING OR HOBBLING BABY.--This is another habit that should be frowned
upon. So many persons are addicted to this form of baby torture, that it
is astonishing more immediate harm does not result from it. Be
particularly careful not to indulge in it, or permit anyone else to do
it immediately after feeding. If you form the habit of putting baby down
at once after each feeding, as you have been instructed to do, the
opportunity to jounce it will not exist. A little reasoning will clearly
convince you that to subject a baby to violent exercise when its stomach
is full would interrupt digestion and so shake the full stomach hat it
would distend it and cause indigestion. You would not think of
exercising yourself after a meal; why exercise a baby?
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