The Evolution of Marriage and of the FamilyLetourneau, Ch. (Charles)
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The Evolution of Marriage and of the Family
Letourneau, Ch. (Charles)
Families; Marriage
Given such an utter subordination of woman, it is self-evident that
there would be no question of her choosing a husband. It is the
father’s duty to marry his daughter; and he need not wait till she
has reached puberty: “A father must give his daughter in marriage to
a young man of agreeable appearance, and of the same rank, according
to the law, although she may not have attained the age of eight years,
at which he ought to marry her.”[566] However, if the father neglects
the prime duty of marrying his daughter, the law ordains that the
latter shall proceed to do it. Marriage is a sacred duty: “Let a girl,
although adult, wait three years; but after that period, let her choose
a husband of the same rank as herself.”[567] The girl is then free, and
her husband in marrying her owes no payment to the father: “The father
has lost all authority over his daughter in delaying for her the time
of becoming a mother.”[568] Girls cannot be married too soon; at eight
years old they are given a husband of twenty-eight; at twelve years, a
man of thirty.[569] Some verses, in contradiction to that which I have
just now quoted, forbid the father from receiving any gratuity whatever
in marrying his daughter, not even a cow or a bull: “All gratuity,
small or large, constitutes a sale.”[570] But the prohibition to sell
his daughter, though still very little observed, is evidently of
posterior date; and in India, as in all other countries, the daughter
has been esteemed at first as merchandise. The law imposes at times
very curious restrictions on a man who is intending to marry. He must
not take a girl with red hair, or bearing the name of a constellation,
of a river, a bird, or a serpent.[571] He must not, under pain of hell,
marry before his elder brother.[572] Above all, he must not marry below
his rank. To marry a woman belonging to the servile class is, for the
Brahmin or the Kchatriya, an enormous crime, which lowers him to the
rank of the Soudras.[573] It is an unpardonable sin: “For him who
drinks the foam of the lips of a Soudra, or who has a child by her,
there is no expiation declared by the law.”[574] He descends to the
infernal abode, and his son loses caste. As for the son of a Brahmanic
woman and a Soudra, he is a Tchandala, the vilest of mortals.[575] The
young Brahmin, after having received the authorisation of his spiritual
director, and having purified himself by a bath, must marry a woman of
his own class, who is well made, who has a fine down over her body,
fine hair, small teeth, limbs of a charming sweetness, and the graceful
movement of a swan or a young elephant.[576] But, however the wife may
be chosen, she is held in a state of servile submission. “A wife,” says
the Code, “can never be set free from the authority of her husband;
neither by sale nor by desertion.” “Once only a young girl is given in
marriage; once only the father says, I give her.”[577]
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