The Evolution of Marriage and of the FamilyLetourneau, Ch. (Charles)
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The Evolution of Marriage and of the Family
Letourneau, Ch. (Charles)
Families; Marriage
Taken as a whole, these antique precepts are still observed in India.
In general, monogamy prevails, but the married woman is none the less
kept in a state of abject subjection. It is shameful, says Somerset,
for a virtuous woman to know how to read and dance; these futile
accomplishments are left to the bayadere. “Servant, slave,” are the
habitual appellations used by the husband in addressing his wife,
who replies by saying “Master, lord,” who must take care not to call
her husband by his name,[578] and has not the right to sit at his
table.[579] It is the parents who negotiate the marriage, without any
regard to the tastes of the future husband and wife, and thinking only
of rank and fortune.[580] A daughter is always married, or rather sold,
in infancy, often to a sexagenarian Brahmin, and before she is of age
to manifest any preference.[581]
These accounts, which are as authentic as possible, enable us to
estimate the Hindoo marriage. However monogamic it may generally be,
it is very inferior from a moral point of view. The tyrannical right
left to the husband, his unlimited power, the servitude of the wife,
yielded or negotiated in infancy, the pride of caste and the care for
wealth outweighing all other considerations, proclaim loudly enough
that matrimonial legislation in India has been the regulation, for the
man’s profit only, of instincts of a very low order.
IV. _Marriage in Ancient Greece._
In primitive Greece the position of woman was little better. On one
hand, the _Iliad_ tells us that the epithet “woman” thrown at a man
was the most contemptuous insult;[582] on the other hand, we have seen
that the girl was purchased by the husband, either by presents or by
services rendered to the father;[583] in short, that the husband might
have domestic concubines with the sole reservation that their children
did not inherit from him.[584] In the first chant of the _Odyssey_ the
severe apostrophe of Telemachus to his mother proves also that in the
absence of the husband the wife was humbly submissive to her sons. “Go
to thy chamber; attend to thy work; turn the spinning wheel; weave the
linen; see that thy servants do their tasks. Speech belongs to men,
and especially to me, who am the master here.”[585] Penelope, like a
well-trained woman, meekly allows herself to be silenced and obeys,
“bearing in her mind the sage discourse of her son.”
In later times the virtuous woman was shut up in the gyneceum, where
she could only receive her parents or the friends authorised by her
husband.[586] She was not even admitted to festivities. But, while
the wife was semi-cloistered in the conjugal house, the husband could
at will frequent and court the hetaïræ (ἑταίραι), and the strangers
(ξέναι) with whom the citizens of Athens had not the _jus connubii_,
and who were not admitted like the well-born or native Athenian woman
(ελευθέρα) to the thesmophors.[587]
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