If the Church in the house of Nymphas consisted of his own family and
dependants, it stands for us as a lesson of what every family, which has
a Christian man or woman at its head, ought to be. Little knowledge of
the ordering of so-called Christian households is needed to be sure that
domestic religion is wofully neglected to-day. Family worship and family
instruction are disused, one fears, in many homes, the heads of which
can remember both in their father's houses; and the unspoken aroma and
atmosphere of religion does not fill the house with its odour, as it
ought to do. If a Christian householder have not "a Church in his
house," the family union is tending to become "a synagogue of Satan."
One or other it is sure to be. It is a solemn question for all parents
and heads of households, What am I doing to make my house a Church, my
family a family united by faith in Jesus Christ?
A like suggestion may be made if, as is possible, the Church in the
house of Nymphas included more than relatives and dependants. It is a
miserable thing when social intercourse plays freely round every other
subject, and taboos all mention of religion. It is a miserable thing
when Christian people choose and cultivate society for worldly
advantages, business connections, family advancement, and for every
reason under heaven--sometimes a long way under--except those of a
common faith, and of the desire to increase it.
It is not needful to lay down extravagant, impracticable restrictions,
by insisting either that we should limit our society to religious men,
or our conversation to religious subjects. But it is a bad sign when our
chosen associates are chosen for every other reason but their religion,
and when our talk flows copiously on all other subjects, and becomes a
constrained driblet when religion comes to be spoken of. Let us try to
carry about with us an influence which shall permeate all our social
intercourse, and make it, if not directly religious, yet never
antagonistic to religion, and always capable of passing easily and
naturally into the highest regions. Our godly forefathers used to carve
texts over their house doors. Let us do the same in another fashion, so
that all who cross the threshold may feel that they have come into a
Christian household, where cheerful godliness sweetens and brightens the
sanctities of home.
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