The Family among the Australian Aborigines, a Sociological StudyMalinowski, Bronislaw
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The Family among the Australian Aborigines, a Sociological Study
Malinowski, Bronislaw
Aboriginal Australians -- Social life and customs; Ethnology -- Australia; Families -- History
This is not so much in evidence as regards the relationship between
the father and child. But here it must be remembered that owing to the
character of the native mode of living the man lives in close contact
and to a great extent in isolation with his wife, and consequently
also with his wife's children. Some of our statements show that he
shares to a certain extent in the cares and labours connected with
carrying children, feeding them, etc.; he seems to have a great
affection towards them and never to treat them with severity. So that
we may infer that the general character of his feelings is of the same
description as that of the mother's, _i. e._ one of parental love and
attachment.
II
An attempt will be made to illustrate by a series of statements all
these characteristics of domestic life as far as they embrace the
relations of parents to children. The chief points of inquiry will
be: Is there between parents and children any kind of affection? What
is the general character of the treatment of children by parents? Are
rudiments of education given by father or mother to their offspring?
In what way does the position of the father differ from that of the
mother--is there any special trait of severity? In what consists the
paternal authority and how does it show itself? Is there any strong
difference made between male and female children?
_Statements._--"In infancy the young Kurnai is an object of love
and pride to its father and mother. From observation of various
tribes in far distant parts of Australia, I can assert confidently
that love for their children is a marked feature in the aboriginal
character. I cannot recollect having ever seen a parent beat or
cruelly use a child; and a short road to the good-will of parents
is, as amongst us, by noticing and admiring their children." The
greatest grief is exhibited at the death of a child by all the
relatives in a camp. These observations refer as well to the Kurnai
and the other South-Eastern tribes, as to the Dieri, of whom the
author gives an illustrative story.[666] The boy lives with his
parents and "is very much under the control of his mother."--This
statement is very valuable. It gives us the opinion of perhaps our
best Australian observer on the psychology of parental feelings;
it refers to all the tribes known to Howitt, _i. e._ to a very
extensive area. And it states in plain terms that the feelings of
love and affection for children which form the chief characteristic
of parental relations are to be found with an intensity which is as
strong as that prevailing in our society. In another place the same
author quotes an instance "of a mother watching her sick child and
refusing all food, and when it died she was inconsolable."[667]
[666] Howitt, _Kam. and Kurn._, p. 189.
[667] Howitt, _Nat. Tr._, p. 766.
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