But the worst annoyance was due to parents coming to visit their
children. Sometimes half a dozen men and women would come from a distant
town to visit one small boy, all of them claiming the parental relation.
In the first place, such visitors could not understand why the boys
should not be kept out of school while they were there. And then they
could not understand why they should not stay over night or several
nights, at my expense, and sleep in the boys’ dormitory. Each of these
matters involved a long contention. Then they could not understand why
their boys should not be allowed to return home with them and spend a
few days. Then they could not understand why I should not give each of
them a present when they were about to take their leave. Sometimes the
boys, themselves, who had been happy and content, became unsettled and
wanted to go home. About every second or third day such visitors were
announced. Parents were always my chief trouble in Africa. Even in
fevered dreams they haunted me. At first these contentions, which
usually occurred in the morning, fairly wore me out before the day’s
work was well begun, but I afterwards learned to regard them as
inevitable and to bear them with the least mental expense possible. My
answers and protests became stereotyped, and I could carry on a vigorous
contention while thinking of something else. But I tried hard not to
offend these people, and somehow we always parted on friendly terms.
Within a month I might meet them in some distant town, and an unkindly
reception or unkindly report would defeat the purpose of my preaching.
In the middle of the term I had a picnic. Taking the _Lafayette_ or the
_Evangeline_ in tow behind the _Dorothy_ we went to a beach twelve miles
away and spent the day. We had many of the usual picnic sports. But
nearly all the prizes were soap, the pieces ranging from one to six
inches. Their deficiency in real sportsmanship is not surprising, but it
is rather amusing. A boy’s effort to win a race consisted largely in
attempting to disable his competitors.
They showed more of the true spirit of the sportsman in their native
games and sports.
They are fond of wrestling, and they wrestle fairly well. There is a
game in which two sides are chosen, and a boy of the first side,
standing opposite a boy of the second side, raises his arms above his
head—which the other boy must do at the same time—then claps his hands
together rapidly, as often as he pleases, at length suddenly thrusting
either arm in front of him as if striking a blow. The other boy must
keep with him as nearly as possible, and at the right moment thrust out
the corresponding arm. A certain number of “wins” makes a chief. The
chief retires honourably from the game and becomes a spectator. This
game is a training both for mind and muscle.
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