The authority of custom, in former times, even exceeded the authority of
kings. But the foreigner ignores native customs, or ridicules them, or
even condemns and forbids them—often without understanding them. The
tribal customs of Africa, from the most trivial to the most revolting,
are not arbitrary, but have a moral meaning and significance; though
they sometimes outlive their usefulness. They either embody such rude
justice as the African has attained; or else they represent the
operation of the law of self-preservation. One can give a rational
explanation even of the most cruel and revolting custom that I have ever
known in Africa, namely, the custom of burying a man’s wives alive with
him when he dies. Africa abounds with deadly poisons, and African wives
frequently contract an unpleasant habit of using them in the
cooking-pot. How common the practice is may be judged by the African
proverb: “We don’t eat out of the same dish,” used for instance as
follows: “So-and-so is angry but what do I care? We don’t eat out of the
same dish.” The wife prepares her husband’s food and has the daily
opportunity of using this deadly weapon. But this burial custom—the fact
that when he dies she will be buried with him—gives her a personal
interest in keeping him alive. It is scarcely necessary to say that I
think that this custom ought to be suppressed and its observance
severely punished. But meantime something ought to be done to improve
the morals of the African wife.
The dowry paid for a wife among the Mpongwe is forty dollars. Among the
uncivilized Fang it is several times this amount, although the Fang are
very poor in comparison. The Mpongwe dowry was reduced by the French
government as a step in the direction of its abolishment; for it is
nothing more than a purchase price. But the result of this forced
reduction of the dowry has been demoralization rather than civilization.
The custom among all tribes is that if a wife desert her husband her
family must pay back the dowry or send back the wife. It is not easy to
send back a large dowry, and the people, being unable or unwilling to do
it, will send the woman back unless she has a very strong case against
her husband. But forty dollars can easily be raised, especially if there
should be several white men to help. So there is nothing to prevent the
Mpongwe woman from leaving her husband when she pleases; and it pleases
her to change him frequently. Until the African attains the moral
sentiment that makes the marriage bond sacred it is better that there
should be the bond of outright purchase and ownership rather than no
marriage at all.
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