Among the semi-civilized Mpongwe of Gaboon, when sickness seems likely
to prove fatal, the friends and relations from far and near gather into
the house of the sick, as many as can crowd inside, and sit about on the
floor, quietly expectorating, or smoking and expectorating, but always
expectorating. The effect of sympathy upon the salivary glands has not
been duly considered by physiologists. There is more than one reason for
their hastening to the bedside of the sick. It is, of course, expected
as an expression of sympathy; and if the sick one should recover he will
resent the omission of this customary courtesy. But if he should die
there are sure to be charges of witchcraft, and suspicion is likely to
fall first on any who did not come to sympathize, the supposition being
that they were kept away by a sense of guilt.
The low wail of mourning starts as soon as it appears that the sick one
is dying, although he may still be conscious. Then when the death is
announced there is a great outburst of cries and shrieks, accompanied by
frantic actions of grief and protest. But this wild outburst soon
subsides into the regular wail of the mourning dirge.
The mother is always the chief mourner. However formal the mourning of
others, hers is a poignant anguish that rends the hearer’s heart. As she
chants she breaks forth into a rhapsody in which she recites the story
of her loved one’s life, dwelling upon those incidents the memory of
which only a mother cherishes. She sings because she must. No other
expression would be adequate; and certainly no other would be so
affecting to the hearer. One reflects that the strongest emotions
naturally resort to music for their expression, and that singing is as
natural as laughter or tears; and one understands how that ancient
orators—accounted the world’s greatest—chanted, or intoned their
orations without lessening, but rather deepening the impression of
sincerity and passionate conviction.
The mourning continues without interruption until the burial, except
while the coffin is being made—for the Mpongwe use coffins. The coffin
is made in the street, in front of the house. If there should be any
wailing at that time the departed spirit will not like his new house,
and some of those who helped to make it will surely die before the year
is over. I have seen a man, who heard the least sound of a wail while he
was working on the coffin, fling his hammer on the ground in great anger
and refuse to continue the work. The mourning is also suspended during
the digging of the grave, if it is near by. The making of the grave must
not be interrupted, but continued until it is finished. Upon its
completion a stick or other object is thrown into it to keep other
spirits from taking possession before its proper resident comes to
occupy it.
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