The Fijians: A Study of the Decay of CustomThomson, Basil
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The Fijians: A Study of the Decay of Custom
Thomson, Basil
Ethnology -- Fiji; Fijians
The actual ceremony varied very much with the rank of the parties to the
marriage. There was no religious element, and the priests took no part
in it. But however humble the couple there were two indispensable
ceremonies--the wedding feast, provided by the bridegroom, and the
_vei-tasi_, or clipping of the bride's hair. I have failed to discover
the author of the fiction, quoted by so many anthropologists, that
marriage in Fiji was consummated in the bush. This was never the case.
On the night of the feast the bride was taken to her husband's house,
which had been either built specially for her, or was lent by the
groom's parents. There the marriage was consummated, without any
ceremony except in the case of high chiefs, when the announcement was
made by a great shouting. On the morrow was the feast of the clipping,
when the long tresses (_tombe_) grown behind each ear as a token of
virginity were cut off.[81] In the inland districts the girl's head was
shorn, and she entered forthwith upon her labour as a hewer of wood and
a drawer of water, ugly enough by this disfigurement to discourage any
admirer. The old women of the bridegroom's family had ascertained
meanwhile whether the bride had had a right to wear these love-locks,
and if the result of their inquiries was unsatisfactory, the feast was
made the occasion for putting her friends to shame. By a slash of a
knife the carcasses of the pigs, which were presented whole to the
visitors in the village square, were so mutilated as to intimate in the
grossest imagery that the bride had had a history. The Fijians,
however, always preserved a delicacy in these matters which was
strangely wanting in the Samoans and Tongans. In Samoa the innocence of
the bride was tested in the sight of the whole village by a sort of
surgical operation performed by a third person (_digito intruso_); in
Tonga the nuptial mat was paraded from house to house.[82]
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There was, in some parts of the group, an occasional "marriage by
capture" that would have gladdened the heart of Maclennan, but it was
ceremonial, and I doubt whether it ever could be described as a custom.
The betrothal gifts having been accepted some time before, the girl was
waylaid and carried off. If she was unwilling she ran away to some one
who could protect her; if she was content the marriage feast was made on
the following morning.
Though as a rule the wishes of the bride were not consulted, there were
certainly matches of _vei-ndomoni_ (mutual affection), and young people
sometimes eloped with one another to the bush. But the flame of passion
soon burnt itself out; the couple soon settled down into the comfortable
relations of mutual convenience; there was never a trace of idealizing
sentiment between lovers.
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