The Future of the Women's MovementSwanwick, Helena M. (Helena Maria)
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The Future of the Women's Movement
Swanwick, Helena M. (Helena Maria)
Women -- Social and moral questions; Women's rights
record of literature of abuse by men which has no counterpart whatever in
the writings and speeches of women. In their desperate seeking for safety
there is no doubt that primitive women had to defend themselves by any
device they could invent; and since men made a wicked mystery of them,
they would mystify men as far as they could, for their own purposes. One
sees women still doing this, and sees the traces of the old fear in the
less civilised modern man’s shoulder-shrug at the incalculable female.
Men have done a vast amount of speculation and theorising about women,
and have remained for the most part quite remote from the reality,
which is very much simpler than all their inventions. The fact is that
many of those who have poured out their venom upon women have been men
whose unregulated appetites have led them to consort with women either
naturally or artificially adapted to them, and they have then proceeded
to expound the eternal feminine in terms of the prostitute. Many of the
theories about Woman, of which we hear so much just now, are really based
upon a more or less intimate acquaintance with prostitutes, and it is one
of the ugliest sides of this ugly traffic that the men who buy the women
seem to hate and despise them so, and they then proceed to generalise
about all women on the data of the hated and despised ones. Progressive
women do not hate the prostitute, but they recognise that, by weakness
or by choice, she has committed a great sin against the spirit, and they
rightly resent generalising about all women from knowledge (and only the
most partial knowledge) of these unhappiest. Reading Schopenhauer, or
Weininger, or Strindberg, one can only exclaim, “What company have these
men kept!” They and a few scientific specialists appear to be the modern
descendants of the authors of _Malleus Maleficarum_.
Owing to sex-obsession, some of these men are permanently unable to
understand women, and their way of treating women is vitiated by this
incapacity. It may be admitted, with reserves, that the characteristic
of the love passion in woman is receptivity, but this is by no means
the characteristic of woman in all relations. If one takes only the
maternal impulses in women, who would deny that they were active, nay,
even sometimes belligerent, if it comes to defending their children? And
the coolness towards all men except the one with whom she is in love
makes a woman not only peculiarly capable of friendship, but also makes
her extremely intolerant of sentimental appeals to the passivity which
is associated with the love passion. Women are moved by sexual impulses
towards particular men, not towards men as a whole, and men will never
understand women so long as they do not recognise this.
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