The Future of the Women's MovementSwanwick, Helena M. (Helena Maria)
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The Future of the Women's Movement
Swanwick, Helena M. (Helena Maria)
Women -- Social and moral questions; Women's rights
With regard to the supposed absence of personal feeling on the part of
the woman, the supposition is altogether out of accord with the facts
of life as one knows it. Women fall in love quite as whole-heartedly
as men, and when a woman falls in love with a man, the sentiments that
fill her being are not in the first instance consciously racial; they
are personal. She desires union with her lover, just as he desires union
with her, and the completest union has no use for compulsion in any form
whatsoever. Those who personify vital forces are very fond of saying
that “Nature” uses the love of man and woman “to further her purposes”
(meaning the reproduction of the species), and there is often a sort of
half-suggestion that man and woman are in reality helpless puppets whom
“Nature” deludes with the mirage of love. Nothing is more misleading
than these personifications of forces. Love is no delusion at all; it
is the one condition under which personal appetite and racial purpose
become fused into the force most productive of joy and health and beauty.
Scientific men who try to reduce the relations of the sexes to mere
animal appetite, and leave out of account the passion of love and the
sentiment of affection are in truth less scientific than the merest girl.
The growth of love is the one security for the adaptation of the Human to
his environment.
Perhaps some people would say, “You talk of love, but men will not
love the progressive women. It is no use arguing that they should;
they don’t, as a matter of fact, and they never will.” It is true that
one does not love because one should. Nothing kills love more surely
than compulsion, and that is the basis of my whole plea for liberty. I
have no fear whatever that women will cease to attract men, but women
should not have to rely upon their power of sexual attraction for a
free and varied existence. I often marvel at the lack of pride and of
self-confidence in the men who advocate what amounts to starving women
into sexual relations. If there are women who are unlovable, the proper
penalty is to leave them unloved; it is not the proper penalty to
starve them. If some women are unlovable, so, in truth, are some men,
and coercion will not help them. On the contrary; what might be good
comradeship is turned into hatred by coercion. And it is not only the
injured person who hates; there is no hate like that of the tyrant for
the object of his repression, and the literature of the world is full of
this strange and terrible hatred of men for women. The early fathers of
the Christian Church forgot their Master in the most scurrilous attacks
on that half of humanity to which Jesus most fully revealed Himself.
The gibbering fear of women showed itself in the witch trials and in
the monstrous inventions of perverted monks. In recent times a little
anthology entitled, _Come learn of Me what Woman is_, and a still more
recent one by Mr. W. H. Beveridge, entitled _John and Irene_, show a
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