The Future of the Women's MovementSwanwick, Helena M. (Helena Maria)
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The Future of the Women's Movement
Swanwick, Helena M. (Helena Maria)
Women -- Social and moral questions; Women's rights
The growth of humaner notions is both the fruit and the promise of
comradeship; it is seen in the change of ideas about education and about
crime and will appear in the ideas about war. People are realising that
many vices are the result of the absence of healthy pleasures. We shall
not need to punish so much for cruelty, drink, and sexual offences, when
we have given people other things to think about and live for; nor for
idleness and theft, when we have made employment safe. The reforms of
the future are going to be constructive, not punitive, and in all these
women’s gifts will be priceless.
Men who wish to keep women in subjection justify themselves by two
claims: (1) Those of men, their needs and appetites; (2) those of
children. With regard to the needs of men, it is certainly essential that
women should understand them, else they will be as stupid about men as
men have been about women, and few conditions are so fertile in suffering
as stupidity. The men, therefore, who, like Sir Almroth Wright, declare
that men will not tolerate epicene institutions, are hopelessly wrong,
for if there are to be two worlds, the man’s and the woman’s, and if all
their work and their thinking are to be done apart, and if men are all
the same to go on arranging the lives of women, with whom they have no
relations but physical relations of sex, there will be less and less of
that understanding, without which there can never be peace. Men who say
greedily, “This world is ours, and we will give you just so much of it as
we please, and it is for you to be thankful,” are blaspheming. The world
is not theirs to give, and although woman cannot fight man with physical
force, let man not think that to give woman her liberty is to confer a
favour upon her. It is only to do his duty, as a man is bound to do.
The men who are afraid women will not see eye to eye with them on the
matter of men’s temptations, use a double-edged argument, when they
declare that there must be a double standard of sexual morality. It is
sometimes based upon the physiological fact that a man can “have” a
hundred children in the time that it takes a woman to “have” one. But
this is to misuse words. A man does not have a child, nor does a woman:
a man and woman together have a child. And, if we even conceded that
promiscuity in a man would not be wrong, provided he could be promiscuous
by himself, how can anyone defend promiscuity in a man, if it infallibly
involves the corruption of women? Those who wish to defend promiscuity
must find a better weapon than the double standard; for if promiscuity
is bad in a woman, it must be bad that a man should corrupt a woman, and
there is the added stain on this particular badness that it is mean and
cowardly as well, for when he has corrupted her in this way, he not only
deserts her, but he hales her before his tribunals and punishes her.
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