So many of our girls are “nervous.” A bright, interesting eighth grade
teacher told me recently that she had fifty girls in her class and
that according to their mothers forty-one were “very nervous.” It
seemed to her a large proportion even for girls in their early teens,
and she began a quiet study of some of them. One of the “very nervous”
girls who, her mother thought, must be taken out of school for a
while, takes both piano and violin lessons, attends dancing school,
goes to parties now and then, and rarely retires before ten o’clock.
Another “very nervous” girl takes piano lessons, goes to the moving
picture shows once or twice a week, hates milk, can’t eat eggs,
doesn’t care much for fruit, and is extremely fond of candy. In each
case investigated there seemed to be much outside of school work which
could explain the “nervousness.”
It is most interesting to note the gain, physically, made by almost
every girl in her teens who enters a good boarding-school, where
plenty of exercise, a cheerful atmosphere, regular hours and wholesome
food is the rule.
Just how much the Sunday-school teacher who is a real friend of the
girl in her teens can help is a question, but I know of enough cases
where an earnest interview with the father or mother has resulted in
better care of the growing girl, with more attention paid to her food
and rest, to make me sure that it pays to attempt to help. If it only
means that the girl in her teens shall not go to school or to work
without breakfast, it pays.
I can almost hear some troubled teacher ask, “Where in the
Sunday-school hour is there time for this?” It can not be done in a
Sunday-school hour except incidentally. But those who are at work with
girls in their teens must teach more than a lesson on Sunday. They are
teaching _girls_ to _live_, if they have entered whole-heartedly into
the work.
Every girl in her teens is interested in her physical self. The ways
in which she strives to satisfy her curiosity and desire for knowledge
are often pitiful, often to be deplored.
From my experience I am convinced that anything which tends to center
her interest upon the physical is unwise. For this reason I very much
doubt the advisability of class instruction, except in general matters
of hygiene. What the whole class is interested in they will discuss.
It will be the main topic of conversation among “chums” as they
separate after class, and the effect I am convinced is bad, simply
because it centers thought upon a subject which to the girl in her
teens should not be the chief interest. Then, too, the individuals in
a class vary so much that the instruction to be given needs special
wisdom, tact and comprehensive knowledge of girls which not every
teacher possesses.
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