The teacher may so easily reveal, too, her respect for the
conventionalities of life. In her escape from the narrowing influences
of the conventionalities of older countries, the American girl has
gone so far into liberty that she does not realize the protection that
lies behind simple conventionality. While it is perfectly true that a
girl may travel alone from one end of this country to the other with
safety, it is not true that it is wise for her to do so. Fathers are
beginning to realize it, and daughters though not “in society” are
enjoying the assurance that, if obliged for social or business reasons
to be out late, their fathers will call for them. It will mean an
effort on the part of the father, but it brings a reward, for his
daughter, feeling herself guarded and protected, develops into a finer
type of woman.
The girl in her teens is interested always in the influence of the
passions and emotions upon the physical nature, and knowledge given in
a simple direct way is good for her.
“Why do some people get very pale and others very red, when they are
angry?” asked a fourteen-year-old girl one day.
“Sometimes you tremble when you are angry,” said another; “and you
usually talk very fast,” added a third. The discussion which followed
was interesting and helpful. They were astonished at the reports made
by physicians and students of the effect upon digestion of angry
words, or sullen silence, during dinner. They learned in a new way the
value of the temper controlled, and of self-mastery in all lines. They
were interested enough to bring into class instances of self-control
under trying circumstances, and of calamities following complete loss
of control for only a few minutes. I think they realized in a new way
the majesty of the perfect self-control of Christ in the most trying
moments of his life. We talked over with profit the effect upon the
physical life, of hurry, of fear, of worry and useless anxiety, and
have tried to find why the Christ was free from them all. The
conclusions reached by the girls themselves have been helpful in every
instance.
As long as we live, the physical will be with us; it is not to be
despised, but respected; not to be ignored, but developed; not to be
abused, but used. It demands obedience, and exacts penalty when its
laws are broken. It is so complicated that no one can understand it.
We may study and analyze, but how much of the physical is mental, and
how much of the spiritual is physical, no one to-day is able to say.
Of this we may be sure,—the physical side of the girl in her teens is
a tremendous force that must be reckoned with, and demands for its
fullest development and her future well being all the sympathy,
patience, and wisdom that parents and teachers can supply.
CHAPTER III—THE MENTAL SIDE
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