The mental activity of the girl in her teens reveals itself also in
her great desire to know. During the period of her teens the girl so
often appears superior to the boy mentally. Sometimes she is, but more
often the seeming superiority can be explained in two ways: the hunger
for knowledge and longing to understand life come to her earlier than
to the boy; she desires to excel, and feels more keenly the disgrace
of low rank and unsatisfactory progress in her studies, which leads
her to devote more time and conscientious effort to master them. While
her brother is buried deep in athletics, she is buried in dreams,
romances and facts. She wants things explained. After sixteen, there
dawns the period when she demands that her teacher shall know. She
must have knowledge. Some teachers of girls in the later teens hold
their interest through a charming personality, a knowledge of the
heart of a girl, and a clever presentation of lessons. Still, such
teachers are unable oftentimes to help the girl in her struggle to
straighten out tangles of what she calls “faith” and “knowledge.”
She asks with a new earnestness, “Are the miracles true?” “Is the
Bible different from other books?” Only last week a girl of eighteen,
suffering with her dearest friend, whose brother had been sentenced to
a term in prison for gross intoxication, said to me: “That man prays
often when he is sober to be kept from drinking, how can God let him
do it when it is just killing his mother and all the family? I don’t
see how it can be true that God loves men when he lets them be so
wicked, and when people suffer so, and starve and die in wrecks and
fires and—it’s terrible. I know you will think I’m awful, but
sometimes I don’t believe in God at all.” Her voice trembled, and I
knew the hurried sentences represented months of thinking. I did not
consider her “awful.” God help her—she has looked the old, old problem
of evil squarely in the face for the first time, and is staggered by
it. How to help her in this crisis we shall consider in our discussion
of the “Spiritual Side.”
She needs now more than ever a teacher who can understand her, who has
thought things out for herself, who can teach positively, who is too
near life to worship creed, and too large to be dogmatic. One so often
wishes, when looking into the face of some thoughtful girl, with mind
keen, alert, active, but perplexed and confused by knowledge that
seems to contradict itself, for some miracle by which for a moment the
Great Teacher might come and speak to her the words that made his
doubting pupil say, “My Lord and my God.”
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