She must remember that the girl in her teens has “grown up,” and that
she is very conscious of it. One must be more her friend than teacher.
In the earlier years every Sunday-school teacher really interested in
her pupils calls freely in the home. When the girl reaches the teen
age, the teacher must ask permission to call. “May I call on your
mother?” often opens the way for a special invitation, or at least
gives the girl an opportunity to make the invitation cordial or to let
it be known that for some reason she prefers not to have her teacher
call. I remember one girl of seventeen who never gave me any
encouragement when I suggested calling, and I respected her wishes.
One day when she was very ill, the mother asked me to come. The girl
had always dressed well, was intelligent and refined, and would have
been supposed to come from a family of comfortable means. I found it
to be a home of real poverty, where the father, a nervous wreck
struggling with diabetes, was unable to work regularly, and the mother
was obliged to assist. Even with the seventeen-year-old girl giving
every cent she could spare, it was a hard struggle. The girl was proud
and reticent; she had not wanted me to know, and I was glad I had not
come until she was willing. That day when she was ill and discouraged
she was willing—she really needed me.
There are many times when for reasons akin to this or others entirely
different but equally good, a girl prefers to have her teacher see and
know her apart from her home. Every woman who understands girlhood in
the later teens respects such a wish.
The teacher’s home should, if possible, be always open to the girls
and they should feel free to come. Sometimes it is not possible and
then the cosiest corner in the smallest church parlor should be
available.
As the girl approaches the later teens the Sunday-school class should
become more and more a place of training for service. It has been my
experience that after seventeen many girls prefer to work in
Sunday-school rather than to remain as pupils. If the girls express
such a desire, or show particular willingness to act as substitutes,
to help in the music of the elementary departments, or to tell stories
to the beginners, such a desire should be recognized and an
opportunity given a girl to test herself under supervision. The
Sunday-school should be constantly preparing assistant
superintendents, directors of music, secretaries and teachers.
Material for the teachers’ training-class is found in classes in the
later teens.
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