The girl in her teens after uniting with the church and experiencing
the uplift and stimulus must come back to the every day. Like my young
friend, she so often thinks that she will “never feel angry again.”
She does, and with the failure to control herself or the quick
yielding to her special temptation comes the feeling of utter
discouragement. She is not good enough to be a member of the church,
and it was a mistake. She needs help—her mother or teacher—to make her
see that even a deep love can not in a moment overcome a quick temper,
nor uniting with the church overcome the habit of the unkind word and
selfish act. It will give her comfort and courage to know that one
becomes a real Christian by successive steps, and it will take all her
life to accomplish the task.
The first thing a young member of the church needs to help her become
what we want her to be, a sane, natural, happy girl, interested in,
enjoying and loving all the things that belong to the normal girl in
her teens, is work.
She must have something to do, for unless the emotions are given a
sane, legitimate outlet, she may come to the fatal conclusion that
religion is a thing apart from life, or there may follow a lowering of
ideals, or the morbid introspection common to girls in their teens,
but which the Christian should escape.
So we must direct her thoughts from herself to her companions. It is
she who can establish a bond of interest between the other girl and
the church. She can bring the other girl under its influence, and help
her see what it stands for in the world.
“No,” said a girl to me at a conference, “it isn’t any of the
speakers, or the books, or sermons that have interested me; it is just
Edith and Alice. They are such splendid girls and they just love the
church and all the work they are doing. They are having such good
times and are truly happy. I want to understand it. Whatever it is I
want it.” I have heard scores of girls say it in varying phraseology.
One girl influences another more than we can, so we may set her at
work with her companions.
But that is not work enough—and it is too indefinite. She must have a
part in the mission work, the social work, be interested in the sick
and unfortunate, and learn now that the business of the church is to
care about the lonely women, the toiling women and their children, the
little, narrow, self-centered women, and those who find it hard to be
good, just as its Lord and Master cared. Nothing is more encouraging
to those who love the church than a large number of bright,
attractive, natural girls, on whose hearts and lives this great truth
is beginning to make an impression which must find expression.
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