It is a little hard to answer, we want so much for her, and yet it can
all be summed up in one sentence, “We want her to be comfortable to
live with.”
When we stop to think of what a flood of blessing would come to this
old world if all the girls now in their teens were comfortable to live
with, and will be as they develop into full womanhood, we know no
effort should be spared to make them so.
If the girl in her teens is comfortable to live with she will be
content in the place where she is. She will have that sane
satisfaction which is not apathy but which makes the best of what it
has till something better can be found.
Very early in her teens the girl begins to pencil upon her face the
first tiny lines which in later years, grown deep and heavy, will mark
her discontent. There are so few faces that show their owners have
learned to be content.
A sixteen-year-old girl friend of mine the other day said in a
discouraged way, “Well, I wish Frances’ mother felt differently about
their home. Her mother is such a lovely cook, and their house is neat
and pretty, too, but she will never let Frances have any of the girls
to dinner because they haven’t a maid. She wouldn’t let even _me_ go
upstairs to Frances’ room, and I know it must be so pretty by the way
she describes it. It is too bad; we just love her, and we could have
such good times. She can’t accept our invitations very often because
her mother won’t let her entertain us. It is just too bad.”
The girl was right. It was “too bad” to deprive Frances of the society
of these girls, who, though they came from homes where more money was
expended, would have so enjoyed her simple hospitality.
Although not meaning to do it, her mother is teaching Frances to place
wrong values upon things, and her life will be narrowed and made more
and more unhappy because the living-room is small, and the floor not
of hard wood, but painted around the outside of the rug, and she will
come to believe that happiness consists of possessions. When she
marries, like thousands of other girls she will be unhappy unless her
own new home is perfect in equipment from the start, she will want the
new, “up-to-date” things faster than her husband’s salary can supply
them, and the long line of misery that follows may easily be hers.
If, instead, her mother could demonstrate that a neat, clean, and
therefore attractive home is a fit place in which to entertain any
friend by welcoming her daughter’s friends for a good time, how
quickly for that girl things would assume their right places in the
scale of importance. We can help her to be happy and content by
showing her in what very simple ways good times may be had.
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