But all this, some teachers may say, belongs in the home. It is the
duty of the home to look after these things. Yes, it is true. And it
is a cause for thanksgiving that in so many homes, sweet, patient,
wise mothers watch over their girls and give them what they need. But
every Sunday-school teacher of girls in their teens has at least one
girl whose mother does not or can not help at the time when help is
most needed. Some have had no training themselves and do not see the
need; some are crushed by the multitude of burdens, some are careless,
and some have no knowledge as to how to cope with the wilfulness of
girls which sometimes appears in the years of adolescence. “The whole
need not a physician, but they that are sick,” the great Teacher said
once, and it is true to-day. Both the public school and the
Sunday-school exist to cultivate all of good that appears in the
girl’s life, and develop what she lacks.
Here is a group of girls in a certain Sunday-school class, most of
them well taken care of physically, but with very little of direct
teaching and development morally. They are selfish, self-centered, and
vain. The teacher’s task is clear. Here is another class in a nearby
church, suffering not only from moral and intellectual neglect, but
from physical as well. Again the teacher’s task is plain.
We have seen that buried deep in the heart of every adolescent girl is
the desire to be attractive, to be popular, to have people “like” her.
This desire prompts her often to little acts of courtesy and kindness
and efforts to be agreeable; more often it prompts her to make herself
physically attractive. Take a walk through any park, along the
boulevards, up the main street of small manufacturing towns, or watch
any high school group at the hour of dismissal: if your eyes are open
you will be conscious of the struggle to be attractive,—to look well.
It is registered in hair and hats, bows and chains and pins. Sometimes
it appears in fads in dress,—low shoes and silk stockings in winter,
or the strange combination of no hat, a very thin coat, and a huge
muff. These are the things that make the people of common sense ask
the very pertinent question, “What are these girls’ mothers thinking
of?” It is a hard question to answer satisfactorily. Often the mothers
have helplessly yielded under the power of that insistent phrase, “All
the girls do.”
If once these girls can be made to see the attractiveness of absolute
cleanliness, of the charm of simple but spotless clothing, of teeth,
hair, hands and skin that show _care_, a great deal will have been
done toward helping their general physical condition.
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