The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. VIII, No. 365, December 25, 1886Various
General
The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. VIII, No. 365, December 25, 1886
Various
Children's literature -- Periodicals
On the other extreme there is the woman who does not care a bit for
dress; who says she wishes we were born covered with black fur, or that
we might cut holes in a sack for our feet and arms, and tie it up round
our necks! She carries out her words so far as generally to appear in
garments specially unsuitable to the occasion on which they are worn,
and seems arrayed in remnants and oddments, chosen without any regard
to her age, complexion, or circumstances; she thinks getting up a lace
fichu is “a waste of time,” and finds it too much “bother” to wear the
little ornaments with which family affection may have provided her.
She defends herself from any charge of slovenliness by pointing to the
swamp of petty frivolity in which too many female lives are sunk, and
avers that she scorns any regard which would be influenced by what she
wore or did not wear. It may be said in her favour that she generally
grows tidier and trimmer as she advances in life, and, proving much
more amenable to the criticisms of “her young people” than she was to
the raillery of school friends and cousins, is often a matron of comely
and attractive appearance.
Then there remains the great multitude between these extremes—a
multitude who does not quite know its own mind, and cannot find any
principle whereby to regulate its movements; who wants to look pretty
and to please, yet is afflicted in its conscience when it reflects on
the sin of personal vanity, and on our responsibility for the souls
and bodies which are perishing at our gates; a multitude who is sadly
tossed between the conflicting arguments of the more strongly-biassed
ladies whom we have just described, with the demoralising result that
it generally leans in practice towards the former, and in theory
towards the latter.
It is this great multitude of girls and women whom we would like to
help by offering a few broad principles for their consideration;
for principles underlie everything. And it is only by our grasp on
principles that we can guide ourselves through the ever-varying details
of duty.
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