The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1000, February 25, 1899Various
General
The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1000, February 25, 1899
Various
Children's literature -- Periodicals
While on this subject it may be well to remark that the same rule
applies to all visits, even what are called “morning” visits—calls made
because they must be made more than with the idea of any pleasure to
be evolved therefrom. The temptation to remain too long in such cases
is, of course, not great, but it does not follow necessarily that the
visitor goes just when she ought. Shyness, a sort of difficulty in
finding the right moment in which to get up and say good-bye, perhaps
sometimes a feeling that you have seemed stupid and dull, and that you
must try and sparkle somewhat before you go, to take away the bad
impression given of your abilities; all sorts of little under-currents
common to human nature seem at times to hamper people and make them do
_gauche_ things, among them being that of sitting on when they ought to
leave.
Even if you are with a friend, not an ordinary acquaintance, and have
lunched with her, it is better to make a move to depart soon after; for
although you may have nothing particular to do that day, she may have,
and in London especially there is such a pressure of things which must
be got through somehow that few of us can afford to let our afternoon
slip away, and with it the chance of seeing such a person, going to
such a shop, writing important letters, etc., etc.
Now I will return to the country house, to make a few observations,
this time not to the visitors, but to the visited; and, as I have all
through my articles tried to make it clear that I do not address myself
to people who live in luxury, I wish to repeat that fact, and to say
that I have not “in my mind’s eye” a magnificent castle with everything
to match, but a house on a modest scale and establishment ditto.
You, inhabiting a nice, comfortable abode of the kind, have bidden some
guests to come and stay; perhaps for an “At Home” in the neighbourhood,
perhaps with no special object in view; but the country is pretty,
they can walk or “bike,” and there is the pony-carriage and possibly a
dog-cart, useful for men in the shooting-season.
Well, first I hope you have not asked too many, for, except in the case
of very young girls who have scarcely been out anywhere, and to whom
a gathering means Elysium, never mind what inconveniences in the shape
of an over full house—sofas to sleep upon and hardly room to dress
in—are attached to it, nobody likes discomfort, and cramming ten people
in where there is only space for eight, or less, does not conduce
to comfort. Besides, too many guests means too few servants for the
unwonted crowd, and consequently work has to be hurried through and, in
artistic parlance, “scamped.”
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