The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX. No. 1005, April 1, 1899Various
General
The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX. No. 1005, April 1, 1899
Various
Children's literature -- Periodicals
From work many a girl wins light spirits. Work I mean, not the slavery
which, alas! is far too often the lot of poor shop lassies and
seamstresses, for whom my heart does bleed. Work _versus_ sauntering
idleness. This idleness means an open empty mind; and parents may rest
assured that, as Nature abhors a vacuum, girls are not very old before
they get such minds filled with thoughts and silly aspirations that
tend neither to the development of a healthy body nor a wholesome mind.
Young girls who have nothing to do build themselves castles in the air
and people them with inmates that they themselves are heartily ashamed
of.
Indeed, I do not know anything more likely to generate future
unhappiness and crabbed ill-health than graduation in the school of
idleness.
An idle body preys upon itself and eke an idle mind.
I may be told that it is fashionable to be idle. True, in certain ranks
of life, but here is my answer to that. Nature not only hates a vacuum,
but she is fond of evenness of surface both as regards the material
world and as regards the immaterial. Nature even levels the mountains,
or is gradually doing so, and fashion is a tool of hers. Fashion levels
down, education and honest work level up; and, in time, Nature will
thus see to it that both shall meet.
It was, I think, Bulwer Lytton—one of the heroes of my boyhood—who
proposed an “Aristocracy of Letters.” The notion has not yet borne
fruit, and the aristocracy we have is certainly not very dignified, it
being constantly added to and adulterated by parvenus of the lowest
type, namely, men who have made millions dishonestly, such as quacks
and patent nostrum men. So, in the course of a few decades, we shall
have little reason to be proud of our “upper ten.” But a true and
pure aristocracy may yet arise in this country from the ashes of the
fading and effete present. Nothing but wisdom, knowledge and health can
support this.
Well, every mater who wishes her girls to grow up happy and healthy, as
they ought to be, has much to do and much to think about.
It cannot be too strongly impressed upon a mother’s mind that the
first portion of a child’s education is begun in the nursery. Children
are imitative to a degree, as much so as the monkeys from which, some
say, we are evoluted. One cannot be too careful then with the ethical
management of the nursery.
Servants allowed to enter there, or maids who take a child out in its
little carriage, should be morally and physically pure. Even baby may
learn from a nurse things that will never be forgotten. When she gets a
little older she may be corrected, and told that to say this or do that
is rude or naughty, and she will refrain for fear of punishment—that is
all. The seed is sown, and nothing can eradicate the mischief.
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