The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX. No. 1005, April 1, 1899Various
General
The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX. No. 1005, April 1, 1899
Various
Children's literature -- Periodicals
You find her everywhere almost nowadays. She is not a natural
production. She is got up. She is forced and artificial. She cannot be
healthy, and has no more heart than a hen, no more stamina or staying
power than a stalk of hemp. She is a resultant of the inflexible law
of supply and demand. Made for the matrimonial market, grown to be
sold, and if—like a choice standard rose—she is labelled with a title,
she will go all the sooner. Money will purchase a wife like this, and,
though marriage may change her and love may come after, the man who
has her has speculated on the off-chance. And now that wax dolls can
be manufactured that can both talk and walk, it seems to me that the
man might have done better with his money. But, thank goodness, the
majority of men prefer the genuine, well-reared, healthy girl, and the
girl that has a heart.
But love is still a great factor—nay, the very greatest—in this life,
and, if that love be real, oh, there is nothing it cannot do!
I must, as a medical man, go a little farther, and tell the mater
something that no scientist will venture to deny. It is this: a
loveless or commercial marriage is not only followed by a senseless
and dreary monotonous life, but children born in such wedlock are
never truly healthy in body, and very often they are defective in
mental qualifications, that is, in brain power. Many a case of epilepsy
is congenital, and a child that is nerveless is liable to future
degeneracy, and apt to fall into any kind of temptation. Doctors have
proofs of this every day.
But though ambitious parents may try to alter Nature’s law, she herself
is inexorable and tells us sternly that the fittest shall survive.
* * * * *
But, harking back to our poet’s lines—
“From work she wins her spirits light,
From busy day, the peaceful night,”
I must give my medical testimony to the truth herein conveyed. Work
does give exhilaration of spirits and enables a girl truly to enjoy
recreation and outdoor exercise, and, moreover, the busy day results in
calm refreshing sleep at night.
Without sleep, without perfect exercise, ventilation of rooms and fresh
air everywhere, no girl can grow up happy and healthful.
Coddling children and keeping them too warm causes them to become
fragile and delicate, with no nerves worth mentioning, except when they
give rise to the tortures of toothache and neuralgia, and no lungs good
enough to last.
There is, mother, but a sad future for that girl who is ashamed to soil
her fingers by doing honest work, or ashamed to wear a thimble and
wield woman’s real weapon—the needle.
But it is not natural for girls to hate work. Do they not make the best
of nurses, for instance, and the most gentle-handed? It is Scott who
says—
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