The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1014, June 3, 1899 — John Shaqi
The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1014, June 3, 1899Various
General
The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1014, June 3, 1899
Various
Children's literature -- Periodicals
Every woman is by right of her sex a nurse, but every woman is by no
means a good nurse. To be a really good nurse requires a great many
qualities and a certain amount of knowledge which many have not got.
Nursing—even nursing one’s dearest relative—is a difficult and onerous
duty, and the first and most important virtue which must be possessed
by nurses is patience.
We call a sufferer a “patient,” but the term would be better applied to
the nurse. For the good nurse is patient when she could, if she willed
so, be impatient; but the sufferer makes a virtue of necessity when he
is patient—and very often he is by no means patient.
The second virtue required is kindness. Oh, always be kind when you are
nursing an invalid. It is here where an invalid’s relatives are more
desirable than paid nurses. It is a most brutal thing to be unkind to
an invalid. All the knowledge of nursing in the world is not worth half
so much as patience and kindness.
In the course of our professional duties we have become acquainted with
many nurses, including some of the most famous of the time. And if you
ask us what is the chief difference between these best nurses and the
ordinary probationers, we answer without hesitation, “They are more
kind and patient.” Of course they are more skilled, more experienced,
and—take it to heart—more obedient; but kindness is their chief
characteristic.
The nurse must always be absolutely obedient to the physician, and
she must carry out his directions to the letter, and neither add to
nor deduct from his treatment. It is not only the good nurse who is
obedient. A woman who departs from the mandates of the physician
is an encumbrance—nay, more than an encumbrance—she is distinctly
detrimental to the health of the patient.
“A little knowledge is a dangerous thing,” especially in medicine.
Nurses—I mean certified nurses—have a little knowledge of medicine; and
if they lack obedience, their knowledge becomes a very dangerous thing
indeed.
If you are patient, gentle and kind, obedient and ready to do your
duty, however irksome it may be, and if also you are clean, you will
make a good nurse. As regards the knowledge of nursing—well, it
really is of very secondary importance! If you are nursing and you
are a little doubtful about any point, you have only got to ask the
physician, and he will make all clear.
But there are many points in nursing which everyone ought to know.
Probably most of you do know them; but repetition will do no harm, for
we are all liable to forget.
It is thought by some persons that all advice on nursing should be
written by nurses. But here we object. Surely the physician is entitled
to say what he requires?
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