The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1017, June 24, 1899Various
General
The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1017, June 24, 1899
Various
Children's literature -- Periodicals
“Exactly so,” answered Miss Foster. “The facts which a child learns are
always of little importance compared with the exercise of its mind in
grasping them. That is why learning anything by rote is useless save
as an exercise of memory, and that explains, too, why some people who
are said to have ‘no book-learning’ are far keener observers and arrive
at more judicious conclusions than do pedants. The plainer folk have
probably learned to use their minds upon the work of their hands. It is
with minds as it is with bodies: unless the digestion is in order, food
does not nourish, is not assimilated, and only results in disease. So
though there is more ‘knowledge’ in the world to-day than ever before,
and though it is more widely distributed, yet at every turn the public
mind—with its violent prejudices, its unreasonable fluctuations, and
its inability to look below any surface conclusions that are offered to
it—proves that the Hebrew prophet’s complaint ‘that the people do not
consider’ is as true as ever it was. Probably in face of present day
opportunities and issues it is even truer. I often think that it will
remain so till parents take more interest in their children’s society
before they are eight years old.”
“I hear that many school children have so many home lessons that they
can’t have much time for home talk,” said Lucy.
“That is so,” consented Miss Foster, “and in my opinion, during the
regular school age home lessons ought to be almost unknown. All the
time at home is needed for home society and home usefulness if the
child is to have a good all-round development. The worst cases I have
known of this kind of loss and defect have been among the children of
modish women, who had ‘social duties’ which they preferred to walking
out and talking with their little ones. If women can’t have patience
and pleasure in their own children, why should they expect it in their
nursemaids? And they don’t get it. I have often seen children dragging
along, silent, listless, gaping, with an irritable or indifferent
nurse, and a few minutes after I have met ‘mamma’ driving out to pay
her calls.”
“I am always so sorry for widows who have to leave their children to
others simply that they may discharge other duties to their children
themselves,” observed Lucy. “A woman cannot at once play with her
babies and earn their bread. I’m afraid we don’t think enough about
the hardships which beset some lives. Perhaps they seldom press on our
attention till we feel a touch of them ourselves.”
“I think a crèche is a very useful form of charity,” answered Miss
Foster, “provided that rules are carefully made not to encourage
married women to think of becoming wage-earners as if that was the
proper thing when their husbands can and should be working for them.”
Lucy smiled a little sadly.
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