The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1026, August 26, 1899Various
General
The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1026, August 26, 1899
Various
Children's literature -- Periodicals
There are, thank God, many girls who are little mothers almost from
their cradles. We can find them in rich homes and poor ones. In courts
and slums where the direst poverty prevails, the baby, often unwelcome
to the elders, is passed over to the ceaseless care of one who is only
a few years past babyhood herself.
From the very first the little deputy-mother deems it her baby, her
choicest treasure, and finds beauties and charms in it which are
invisible to other eyes. Its increasing size and weight may cause her
greater weariness, but they are none the less sources of pride and joy,
and make her forget her own aching back.
She would go hungry that it might be well fed; cold, that it might be
warmly bundled up in the shawl that ought to do duty as covering for
both of them. Her baby may be but a caricature of the pink and white
loveliness of another infant clad in silk and lace and with two nurses
to watch its every movement; but let a ragged dweller in the same court
disparage the looks of her darling, and she would fight the slanderer
as stubbornly as ever knight of old did in defence of the charms of his
ladye love.
I must not dwell on this picture. Long ago when the “G. O. P.”[1] was
itself a baby under two years old, I wrote with heartfelt respect of
“Little Nurses.” I had studied them in many places, and the sight of
their devotion had inspired my admiration and loving sympathy.
[1] No. 69, vol. ii.
Turning from the baby devotee of the slums, and not for a moment
forgetting sweet pictures of sisterly devotion which I have seen in
other ranks of life, I am going to indulge in a little croak about the
decay of the maternal spirit in many of the girls of to-day.
I was journeying northward some three years ago, and during part of the
time I had only one companion. She was past girlhood, probably some
years over thirty, and in the course of conversation she spoke of her
old happy home and the gradual scattering of its inmates, until she
found herself the last one left. Her parents had died not long after
each other, and brothers’ and sisters’ homes were far apart. That there
had been true family union and affection amongst them I felt sure, for
my companion could not speak of the good father and mother without a
trembling of the voice and tears which she turned away to hide.
Later the talk turned on children. I suppose, as an old mother, I must
have expressed my deep love for them, and I was almost horrified when
my companion exclaimed—
“I loathe children. I cannot bear even to touch a child.”
The expression on her face proved her sincerity.
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