The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1030, September 23, 1899Various
General
The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1030, September 23, 1899
Various
Children's literature -- Periodicals
Those of you, my dear girl friends, who are members of large families,
know how very soon the little ones begin to observe what is passing
around them. One never-ending marvel, in connection with infant life,
is the amount of knowledge gained during the first year of a child’s
existence.
The little creatures come into an unknown world where everything is
strange. Even the mother’s face has to be studied and learned off by
heart.
How quickly the baby eyes begin to follow the movements of those around
them! How soon they learn to discriminate between one face and another,
one object that is pleasant to the sight and a second that inspires
fear or dislike!
How marvellous is that instinct of self-preservation which moves the
little hand to twine itself round an outstretched finger, or to clutch
at any object within its reach!
Has it not been to you, baby’s sister, almost as much as to the
mother, a source of pride and delight to observe that the new-comer
was “beginning to take notice”? If the downy head is turned in your
direction, there is quite a ring of triumph in your voice as you say,
“I am sure he knows me.”
You see, I picture my girls as loving sisters with tender, motherly
instincts, and I decline to believe that there is one amongst them who
does not love these little ones.
If children begin to observe so soon, how important it is that those
who are round and about the life-path, on which, as yet, they can
only place a little tottering foot, should be careful that they see
only what is worthy of imitation. We, who are, perforce, the patterns
which the children are certain to copy, should be doubly watchful over
ourselves for their dear sakes.
You and I need to be ever on the watch on our own account, and the
prayer “Lord, I cry unto thee. Keep the door of my lips. Incline not
my heart to any evil thing. Deliver my feet from falling,” must often
go up from our hearts to God, if we are sensible of our needs and
weaknesses.
Have you not a double reason for the prayer that you may be kept from
sin, whether in word or deed, if you are elder sisters in homes where
the children must certainly learn by your example? I would not only
urge you never to utter a wrong or impure expression, but also to avoid
the foolish talk which even some older people think the only kind
suited to children. Use habitually the best words you know, so that
the little ones may have nothing to unlearn that they have heard from
your lips. Speak clearly and distinctly, avoid shrieking, boisterous
laughter, and discordant tones, so that baby’s voice, imitating yours,
may be clear and even musical from the first.
Be gentle and graceful in your movements. Do not throw yourselves about
or be rough, careless or boisterous in manner, for if you are, you
will soon see a little reflection of your doings in the toddling thing
who smashes his toys and laughs at the destruction he has wrought.
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