The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 983, October 29, 1898Various
General
The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 983, October 29, 1898
Various
Children's literature -- Periodicals
A word before concluding this paper to those who now and then give
dinners. Not the great banquets in big houses, which are part of the
routine of life, and being perfect in every detail go like clockwork;
but the modest entertainments in small abodes where the infrequency
of "parties" causes some excitement and extra work in the household.
The first thing to be remembered when such an event occurs is not to
attempt more than can be done properly as regards the number of guests
or dishes, and secondly, having settled the quantity and quality of
both, and arranged all things to the best of your ability, to leave
it alone. That is to say, do not let your mind worry and bother about
it, for of all fatal obstacles to the success of a dinner-party,
the irrelevant answers and wandering eye of the hostess, due to her
thoughts being fixed upon the delay in handing the vegetables, or
the non-appearance of a sauce, are the greatest, and moreover call
attention to shortcomings which otherwise might pass unobserved.
Therefore "assume the virtue" of coolness "if you have it not,"
and never allow your neighbour to see that while he is trying to
interest you and make himself agreeable your mind is elsewhere, and
that you have not heard a word of what was said. Remember also that
your business at the time is to be hostess, not cook, footman, or
parlour-maid, and that the more you attend to your own duties, and
do not, to use an expressive word, "fluster" the servants, the more
likely are they to get through their part creditably; and finally do
not forget that an important rule of society forbids the exhibition of
personal annoyances and domestic grievances to our acquaintances or
friends.
(_To be continued._)
[Illustration]
FROM LONDON TO DAMASCUS.
[Illustration: WATER SELLERS, PORT SAID.]
I suppose most girl-readers will understand the thrill of surprise
and delight with which I read the following sentences from a friend's
letter one February morning.
"My uncle thinks I need a change, and suggests my going abroad. Will
you go with me to Palestine for two or three months? We ought to get
off before the warm season begins there. Do you think we could leave
England at the end of this month?" Two or three times I read the words
in a dazed sort of way, and then astonished my hostess (a well-known
contributor to the G.O.P.) by quietly remarking--
"Would you be greatly surprised if I started for the Holy Land in a few
days? Elizabeth N. has asked me to go with her."
"The Holy Land!" echoed Mrs. B. "Do you really mean it?"
For answer, I handed her my letter, and greatly enjoyed the sensation
it created at the breakfast-table.
"How lovely," said kind Mrs. B., "to visit the sacred spots where our
Lord began and ended his ministry. How I wish I was strong enough to go
with you!"
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