The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 992, December 31, 1898Various
General
The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 992, December 31, 1898
Various
Children's literature -- Periodicals
These added words were as true as the proverb itself. There is always
someone, amongst our many acquaintances and kinsfolk, who has a good
memory for dates, and who can refer to the number of Life's milestones
we have passed with unerring accuracy.
I asked you if there could be anything more pitiable and contemptible
than the sight of an elderly woman trying to defy time and age by such
means as I have named?
I will answer my own question, "Yes, there is. The sight of a girl
who, possessing youth, health, and the share of good looks and
attractiveness which must accompany these two things, is ever striving
to improve Nature's handiwork by the use of unnatural means." Believe
me, my dear girl friends, the sight of a young face disfigured by
artificial colouring and unnaturally whitened by powder, of blackened
eyebrows and eyelashes, together with similar shams, excites in my mind
a feeling of true motherly regret. I love girls too well to say hard
things or to speak of contempt for such practices; though they ought to
be contemptible in the eyes of all pure and right-minded girls.
One associates the use of them with small minds and natures whose chief
end and aim are to gratify personal vanity and attract admiration,
instead of striving to win respect by the exercise of far nobler
powers. Can any girl be so self-deceived as to think she will win
honest affection by such means? She may win it in spite of them, but
it will be because the one who gives it is able to discover something
better and more deserving of love beneath this miserable upper crust of
deception.
One is always ready to recognise, with gratitude, even a mistaken
attempt made by the young with a view of giving pleasure to others. But
I am sure that self-pleasing and the gratification of vanity are, in
nearly every case, the incentives to such displays as I have condemned.
In looking round me, I have been struck with the fact that some of the
girls who use paint, powder, and what are, I am informed, known under
the general name of "make-ups," are just those to whom Nature has been
specially liberal in the gift of beauty.
Beauty, when joined to vanity, has an insatiable longing to add to its
attractions. It is more than conscious of all that it has, but it is
never satisfied, because it craves to combine, in its own person, the
attractions of every style which is, from time to time, commended in
its hearing. Hence all these useless and foolish efforts to improve on
Nature's handiwork.
Do not misunderstand me so far as to think I condemn the use of many
little toilet accessories, which add greatly both to comfort and
health. It would be insulting to the good sense of my girls, if I were
to specify what things are lawful and useful, and what are contemptible
and to be avoided.
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