The Golden Bough: A Study in Magic and Religion (Third Edition, Vol. 03 of 12)Frazer, James George
Religion
The Golden Bough: A Study in Magic and Religion (Third Edition, Vol. 03 of 12)
Frazer, James George
Magic; Mythology; Religion; Superstition
Among the Haussas “the first-born son is never called by his parents by
his name; indeed they will not even speak with him if other people are
present. The same rule holds good of the first husband and the first
wife.”(1266) In antiquity Ionian women would not call their husbands by
their names.(1267) While the rites of Ceres were being performed in Rome,
no one might name a father or a daughter.(1268) Among the South Slavs at
the present day husbands and wives will not mention each other’s names,
and a young wife may not call any of her housemates by their true names;
she must invent or at least adopt other names for them.(1269) A Kirghiz
woman dares not pronounce the names of the older relations of her husband,
nor even use words which resemble them in sound. For example, if one of
these relations is called Shepherd, she may not speak of sheep, but must
call them “the bleating ones”; if his name is Lamb, she must refer to
lambs as “the young of the bleating ones.”(1270) After marriage an Aino
wife may not mention her husband’s name; to do so would be deemed
equivalent to killing him.(1271) Among the Sgaus, a Karen tribe of Burma,
children never mention their parents’ names.(1272) A Toda man may not
utter the names of his mother’s brother, his grandfather and grandmother,
his wife’s mother, and of the man from whom he has received his wife, who
is usually the wife’s father. All these names are tabooed to him in the
lifetime of the persons who bear them, and after death the prohibitions
are not only maintained but extended.(1273) In southern India wives
believe that to tell their husband’s name or to pronounce it even in a
dream would bring him to an untimely end. Further, they may not mention
the names of their parents, their parents-in-law, and their
brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law.(1274) Among the Ojebways husbands and
wives never mention each other’s names;(1275) among the Omahas a man and
his father-in-law and mother-in-law will on no account utter each other’s
names in company.(1276) A Dacota “is not allowed to address or to look
towards his wife’s mother, especially, and the woman is shut off from
familiar intercourse with her husband’s father and others, and etiquette
prohibits them from speaking the names of their relatives by marriage.”
“None of their customs,” adds the same writer, “is more tenacious of life
than this; and no family law is more binding.”(1277) In the Nishinam tribe
of California “a husband never calls his wife by name on any account, and
it is said that divorces have been produced by no other provocation than
that.”(1278)
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