The Golden Bough: A Study in Magic and Religion (Third Edition, Vol. 03 of 12)Frazer, James George
Religion
The Golden Bough: A Study in Magic and Religion (Third Edition, Vol. 03 of 12)
Frazer, James George
Magic; Mythology; Religion; Superstition
(M206) Among the Nufoors, as we have seen,(1293) persons who are related
to each other by marriage are forbidden to mention each other’s names.
Among the connexions whose names are thus tabooed are wife, mother-in-law,
father-in-law, your wife’s uncles and aunts and also her grand-uncles and
grand-aunts, and the whole of your wife’s or your husband’s family in the
same generation as yourself, except that men may mention the names of
their brothers-in-law, though women may not. The taboo comes into
operation as soon as the betrothal has taken place and before the marriage
has been celebrated. Families thus connected by the betrothal of two of
their members are not only forbidden to pronounce each other’s names; they
may not even look at each other, and the rule gives rise to the most
comical scenes when they happen to meet unexpectedly. And not merely the
names themselves, but any words that sound like them are scrupulously
avoided and other words used in their place. If it should chance that a
person has inadvertently uttered a forbidden name, he must at once throw
himself on the floor and say, “I have mentioned a wrong name. I throw it
through the chinks of the floor in order that I may eat well.”(1294) In
German New Guinea near relations by marriage, particularly father-in-law
and daughter-in-law, mother-in-law and son-in-law, as well as
brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, must see as little of each other as
possible; they may not converse together and they may not mention each
other’s names, not even when these names have passed to younger members of
the family. Thus if a child is called after its deceased paternal
grandfather, the mother may not call her child by its name but must employ
another name for the purpose.(1295) Among the Yabim, for example, on the
south-east coast of German New Guinea, parents-in-law may neither be
touched nor named. Even when their names are borne by other people or are
the ordinary names of common objects, they may not pass the lips of their
sons-in-law and daughters-in-law.(1296) Among the western tribes of
British New Guinea the principal taboo or _sabi_, as it is there called,
concerns the names of relatives by marriage. A man may not mention the
name of his wife’s father, mother, elder sister, or elder brother, nor the
name of any male or female relative of her father or mother, so long as
the relative in question is a member of the same tribe as the speaker. The
names of his wife’s younger brothers and sisters are not tabooed to him.
The same law applies to a woman with reference to the names of her
husband’s relatives. As a general rule, this taboo does not extend outside
the tribal boundaries. Hence when a man or woman marries out of his or her
tribe, the taboo is usually not applied. And when members of one tribe,
who may not pronounce each other’s names at home, are away from their own
territory, they are no longer strictly bound to observe the prohibition. A
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