The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
The women are very superstitious, and believe in the efficacy of charms
and amulets for every known disease. Nearly every woman wears around her
neck, lost to sight amidst the innumerable chains with which she covers
the upper part of her body, an amulet or charm of some kind. Perhaps it
is a silver box containing a few words of the Koran, or a small piece of
parchment with mystic letters written on it, guaranteed to guard her
household from harm. All Egyptian women know of charms and lotions and
shrines or mystic words to give the wife who has not presented a son
unto her lord. One of the first questions asked by Egyptian women is,
“How many children have you?” If the answer is “None!” they cannot keep
the looks of pity from their eyes, nor the sympathetic words of
condolence from their lips. They are also most generous in giving
talismans to remedy this defect, and will wax enthusiastic over the
beneficial effects of some favourite pilgrimage, amulet, or prayer.
I have a piece of sheepskin with the ninety-nine names of Allah written
upon it in gold, intended to insure, not only the advent of a son, but
also, if bound upon his arm, to guard him from all danger throughout his
lifetime.
At the opera in cosmopolitan Cairo one may hear rustlings and low
laughter from behind the closely screened boxes, and know that an
Egyptian Bey or wealthy merchant is there with his family, allowing them
to enjoy the play and watch the people in the house, themselves unseen.
But this joy is given usually only to the women of Cairo, as the smaller
towns have not as yet become sufficiently modernized that the women may
go to the public theatres. In the conservative homes, if a hostess
wishes to entertain her guests with professionals, she sends for the
singing girls or dancing women to come to her home, and there they
perform before the ladies, who watch them from the divans, and talk and
laugh with their entertainers, getting far more amusement from them than
by simply looking at them on the stage.
Fortune-tellers are often brought into the women’s quarters, and blind
men who chant the words of their sacred book, the Koran. This latter is
a popular form of entertainment, and even to Western ears the sad, minor
music has a charm, although after a time it becomes monotonous to one
who cannot understand the Arabic in which the Koran is written.
Even the conservative Egyptian mother is now beginning to see that she
must educate her daughter as well as her son, if she wishes her to make
a good marriage. The modern Egyptian youth does not care for an ignorant
wife who can only entertain him with household gossip when he comes from
office or shop.
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