The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
“He imagines the great tribe of the Smiths throughout Great Britain
bound together in a community, and recognizing as their cardinal
doctrine that a Smith must always marry a Smith, and could by no
possibility marry a Brown, a Jones, or a Robinson. This seems fairly
simple; there would be quite enough Miss Smiths to go round. But, then,
note that the Smith horde would be broken up into smaller clans, each
fiercely endogamous. Brewing Smiths,” Sir H. Risley asks us to observe,
“must not mate with baking Smiths; shooting Smiths and hunting Smiths,
temperance Smiths and licensed-victualler Smiths, Free Trade Smiths and
Tariff Reform Smiths, must seek partners for life in their own
particular section of the Smithian multitude. The Unionist Smith would
not lead a Home Rule damsel to the altar, nor should Smith the tailor
wed the daughter of a Smith who sold boots.”
In its effect upon women the caste system has been most deleterious
because of the difficulty of finding husbands within the same caste. It
has led to the making away with undesirable daughters, which was
frequently practised by the parents before the English Government
stepped in and made female infanticide a crime and severely punished the
culprits. Yet we are told that the disproportion of female to male
children shows that the practice has not been completely stamped out,
and that many fathers foreseeing the financial difficulties to be
encountered in marrying their daughters, have deliberately made away
with them at birth. In the smaller villages the crime is difficult of
detection, but when the ratio of girls to boys falls particularly low in
a community, the Government quarters extra police upon the people,
making all the inhabitants contribute towards the cost of their
maintenance, and the records soon show that girl babies are again being
born in the villages.
Life in a high-caste Brahman family is much more complicated than that
of the low-caste family, and many burdens are added to the already heavy
ones borne by the Hindu woman, because of the rituals and customs woven
around this caste system. A woman told me that she had a friend who
lived in the house of two maiden aunts who were most orthodox Hindus.
This woman was not allowed to touch a thing in the morning before her
bath. Beside her bed was a long pole with which she must handle her
towels and clothing, and she was not permitted to enter the presence of
her aunts until her uncleanliness had been removed by ablutions and
prayers.
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