The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
I was charmed with this dainty little woman, yet I could not help
thinking that she might be a pretty toy, but not a companion to the man
with whom I had been conversing a few hours previous, and in whose
library I had seen Emerson’s “Essays,” Farrar’s “Life of Christ,”
“Pilgrim’s Progress,” the works of Tolstoy, Epictetus, and lying upon
the desk, as if just left by the master, Maeterlinck’s “Life and Death.”
According to the ethical, moral, and religious standards of the Hindus,
man and woman are equal. The Vedas teach—
Before the creation of this phenomenal world, the first born Lord of
all creatures divided his own self in two halves so that one half
should be male and the other half female. Just as the halves of
fruit possess the same nature, the same attributes and the same
properties in equal proportion, so man and woman, being the equal
halves of the same substance, possess equal rights, equal
privileges, and equal power.
This sounds very well in print, and learned Hindus quote us the Vedas to
show that in their country women and men are considered equal. They are
most indignant at the conception by the Western people of the treatment
accorded the Indian woman by her husband. They say that books are filled
with the stories of the brutality of husbands who marry these girl-wives
without love on either side, yet they point out that it is a well-known
fact that there are fewer wife-beaters in India than there are in
England. Manu, the great law-giver, says, “A woman’s body must not be
struck hard even with a flower, because it is sacred.”
In the olden time we are told that women were well versed in the Vedas,
although it is now claimed that they are forbidden to read them or to be
taught their truths. It is known that two of the famous songs of the Rig
Veda were revealed by women, and when Sankaracharya, the great
commentator of the Vedanta, was discussing this philosophy with another
savant, a Hindu lady well versed in the Hindu scriptures was requested
to act as umpire.
Whatever may have been her position in former times, at present there is
no woman on earth who reveals more true attachment and devotion to her
husband than does the Hindu wife. There is a beautiful saying, “Man is
strength, woman is beauty; he is the reason that governs and she is the
wisdom that moderates.”
In the Mahrabarata we find this definition of a woman—
A man’s wife is his truest friend;
A loving wife is a perpetual spring
Of virtue, pleasure, wealth; a faithful
Wife is his best aid in seeking Heavenly bliss.
A sweetly speaking wife is a companion
In solitude, a father in advice,
A mother in all seasons of distress,
A rest in passing through life’s wilderness.
CHAPTER VIII
INDIAN MOTHERHOOD
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