The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
Pundita Ramabai’s home for widows is a very remarkable institution, and
well repays one for a visit. It is a faith mission—that is, its members
do not receive a salary, but depend upon donations for their support.
What remains after the expenses of the establishment have been met is
divided among the workers according to their needs. They are a very
devoted band, with an orthodox, old-fashioned brand of religion that
holds the wrath of God and the terrors of hell over these emotional
women, whose only outlet for their emotions is their prayers, and at
noon they are permitted to pray aloud and express their desires and
their states of feeling. One day we heard a great buzzing, sounding from
the distance like an immense swarm of bees, and found it was the 1,350
widows, rescued street women, and children having their noonday prayer.
Some of them worked themselves into a veritable ecstasy of religious
emotion, swaying their bodies, the tears running down their faces as
they prayed for the forgiveness of their sins, real or imaginary.
The business manager was more interested in the practical than the
religious aspects of the mission, and looked at the whole question with
the eye of the man who has to provide for all these people who give
nothing to the common good. When asked the outcome of it all, he said he
could not see what good was being accomplished except in the actual
saving of the lives. They could not marry, they could not support
themselves, they were helpless, and would be a burden on others’
shoulders so long as they lived. He said: “Now look! There go four
hundred women who should be married to-morrow; but who will marry them?
No Hindu would dare break his caste by marrying one of them. It would
completely ostracize him from his community. And again, we would not
want to marry a Christian girl to a Hindu or a Mohammedan.”
I asked: “Are there no Christian boys to marry them?”
He replied: “There are not enough to go around, and even a Christian
does not marry a widow.”
“Do you ever have any offers?” I asked.
He laughed. “Yes, once in a while some man takes courage and comes here
to find a wife, but he generally goes away without one. We seem here
rather to go on the principle of getting rid of the speckled apples
first, and if there is a girl with a hare lip, or only one eye, she is
the one trotted out for inspection. Naturally, the boy beats a hasty
retreat, saying he believes he does not want to get married to-day.”
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