The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
In these old families in Hyderabad there are a great many people under
the one roof. The patriarchal family life prevails—that is, the sons
bring their wives to their father’s home, and a large house shelters
many families. The mother is the head of the women’s quarters and her
word is law. Innumerable servants and poor relations are ever present,
and to our Western eyes disorder and chaos seem to reign. There are some
old families in this city that keep up the state of princes or petty
kings. There is one great lady who is surrounded by a bodyguard of
amazons, women dressed as soldiers, who salute and present arms with
military precision when her courtyard is entered by a visitor.
We went from the house of our young hostess, loaded down with pan and
fruit, to the home of a colonel in the Nizam’s bodyguard. His wife is
“purdah,” but his daughter is allowed to be seen in public. In the
drawing-room was a man tuning the piano, and Mme. Naidu said to the
daughter, “Your mother cannot come here. There is a man.” The daughter
replied: “Oh, it is all right, he is blind.” The mother had travelled
extensively in Europe, Egypt, and Turkey. While abroad she went about
freely as any European, only becoming the secluded Indian wife while in
her own country. Her daughter was to be married and she showed me the
clothes for the trousseau. There were about fifty complete outfits, made
of gorgeous Benares cloth, heavy with gold. This clothing lasts a
lifetime, and is handed down from daughter to daughter, as styles do not
radically change. The mother told me that the custom of giving so much
clothing is dying out, and money is given instead, allowing the daughter
to buy from time to time, according to her fancy.
While we were talking the husband came in. He was dressed in English
riding clothes, and was a very up-to-date man-of-the-world. The moment
he entered, the mother and daughter, who up to this time had been
chatting affably and freely, became silent. They virtually did not speak
a word while he was in the room, but became at once true Indian women,
silent before that superior being—the man.
CHAPTER XI
MOHAMMEDANISM WITHIN THE ZENANA
We are often told that Mohammedan women are not religious, that they
leave all devotional exercises for their lords and masters, who are
accountable to Allah for their salvation, and to whom they must look for
permission to enter the abode of the blessed. It is a fact that the
women followers of the Arabian prophet are not seen in the mosques,
because no Mohammedan woman appears in a public place where she may come
in contact with the other sex. Mohammed discouraged the worship of women
in public by saying, “The presence of women in the mosques inspires men
with feelings other than those purely devotional.”
[Illustration:
MOHAMMEDAN WOMEN, HYDERABAD.
To face p. 170.]
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