The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
We arrived at the home, which was surrounded by a great wall, in which
was a massive wooden door studded with iron nails. In the olden time
these homes were used as fortresses, and were made strong enough to
repel an invasion by the enemy. Within an embrasure by the side of the
gate was a man on guard, with a gun beside him. It is true that the gun
was of an obsolete pattern, that would quite likely do the user more
damage than any one else, if the guard had been called upon to act, but
it looked picturesque. The guard immediately turned his back when he saw
that the carriage contained ladies, and our servant went ahead to see
that all men-servants were out of sight before my Mohammedan friends
would enter the courtyard. We drove into what seemed an immense
stable-yard. Bullocks were standing by the side of great lumbering
carts, horses were in their stalls, and stable accessories were
scattered about in great disorder. A curtain was raised by a
woman-servant, disclosing a short stone stairway, ascending which we
found ourselves in the women’s quarters. It was a courtyard, with rooms
opening upon it from the four sides. These rooms were more like large
alcoves, being separated from the court only by arches.
At one end was a large room, where about sixty ladies were sitting on
the floor in front of a strip of white cloth, that served as table and
tablecloth combined. They were seated on the three sides of the room,
leaving the open space in the middle for the servants to pass while
serving the food. We left our shoes at the entrance and were taken to a
servant, who poured water over our hands from a brass ewer, allowing it
to fall into a basin in which was some finely chopped straw to conceal
the water. Our hostess seated us opposite her, and an old servant dipped
from a central bowl of rice a generous helping for me, and then various
curries, unknown to me, were passed. I watched my friend, and took from
the dishes she favoured, mixing it with the rice upon my plate, making
rather a sticky mess, that was conveyed to my mouth with difficulty.
Eating with the fingers is not so easy as it may appear to a casual
observer, but evidently practice makes perfect, because all seemed most
adept, using only the thumb and three fingers of the right hand. No food
must be touched with the left hand, as it is, religiously, unclean.
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