The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
religiously in cases of sickness and calamity.
About three in the afternoon, after washing their bodies and putting on
new clothes and ornaments, the females make preparations for performing
the last and farewell ceremony in honor of the goddess. The _sudder_
(main) door is closed, musicians are ordered to go out in the streets,
the Doorga with all her satellites is brought out into the area of the
temple, the _barandallah_ with all its sundries is produced, and the
females whose husbands are alive begin to turn round the images and
touch the forehead of each and every one of the deities with the
_barandallah_, repeating their prayers for lasting blessings on the
family. To the inexpressible grief of the widows, who are present on the
occasion, a cruel institution has long since debarred them from
assisting in this holy work. These ill-fated creatures are doomed only
to stare at the images, but are not permitted to take an active part in
the ceremonial. Is it possible to conceive a more gloomy picture of
society than that which absolutely expunges from a human breast all
traces of a religious privilege the exercise of which, though under a
mistaken faith, tends to sweeten a wretched life? The miserable widows
of India are unhappily destined to pine away their existence until
greater leaders of native reforms arise and deliver them from the
galling fetters of superstition.
The epilogue which closes the parting ceremony is called the
_kanakanjally_, which consists in a woman (not a widow) taking a small
brass plate of paddy and _doova_ grass with a Rupee dyed in red lead in
it, and throwing it from the fore part of the image right over its head
into the cloth of a man who stands behind for the purpose of receiving
it. This last offering, it is needless to say, is preserved with the
greatest care. The female who performs the rite is an object of envy.
This rite being performed, the females take each a bit of the sweetmeat
and betel which has been _last_ offered to _Ma Doorga_. A sudden
reaction of feeling takes place, all hearts are grieved, and some
actually shed tears. Two sensations, though not exactly analogous, arise
in their minds; first the religious part of the festival, and the
consequent arousal of a devotional spirit, vividly reminding one of the
unceasing round of ritualistic ceremonies as well as festivity and
gaiety that the presence of the goddess naturally enough produced, and
which are about to vanish and disappear in an hour by the immersion of
the goddess in the river or pond; and second, a worldly one, the
recurrence of the idea when a mother sends her daughter to the house of
her father-in-law. In either case, the tender heart of a Hindoo female
easily breaks down under the pressure of grief.
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